Ur18 an u think u might be preg.n have 1yr of H.S 2go how do u tell ur parents?what do u do in this situation?

Question

the guy is a "friends w/benefits" an we've been friends less then a yr. also he is leaving for college at the end of aug to a differ state.abortion wudnt be a choice of mine n i have a b/f away in the airforce. i made myself a mess ;-(..i need sumone to talk to who can clear my head alil

i slept with him for 2w/ks be4 my period n my pd. was late, light, n not as long as normal..so i took at est n it said it was negative

Answer 1

Go buy a pregnancy test. Then at least you will know what you have to worry about. May be nothing!

Answer 2

if youre not sure...
take a pregnancy test first before you start stressing over something that might not even happen.

if youre really sure your pregnant and that the pregnancy test says you are pregnant then...

i know someone with the same situation.
she told her parents (the strictest parents in the world!) and it was alright. they didn't get mad and stuff. they were more concerned about her health. parents could be so scary sometimes but they get mad at you for your own good...it's because they care about you so much and that they don't want you hurt that they get pissed off when you don't listen. pregnancy is something you can't change anymore, it's something that gives you only one way to go: FORWARD.

the first thing YOU have to do is come clean...confess to your parents...it won't be easy but that's what you have to do. they know better. this is something you can't handle on your own. trust them. ask for their advice. if they get mad thats ok. it's normal. now from there, its all up to you and your parents. you can either decide to give the baby to an adoption agency where it can find a home or raise the baby.

the next thing you gotta do, fess up to your boyfriend. he won't take it softly though because he had put his trust on you and you apparently broke it.for a man giving trust is HARD but that's what you gotta do and what's done is done. you can't live a lie. that would be a sin. if you truly love him then you'd want him to know the truth and if he truly loves you then he won't break up with you. love is not all about being happy its about accepting.

the last advice im going to give you is quit remorsing. what done is done. dont live in the past. you gotta think ahead. just remember, your not only thinking about YOU, it's also about that baby's life and that when the going gets tough, the tough gets going. you gotta learn from your mistakes and make sure it aint happening again. that's what life is all about...learining to be a better person everyday.

GOD BLESS YOU DEAR. I hope things turn out alright.

Answer 3

You need to find out if you are for sure 100% positive that you are pregnant first. If you are write out a list of all the positive things that you could do for your baby...i.e. have a job, getting an education, place to live... Then talk to your parents. You are 18 and should be able to talk to them like an adult and hopefully with their help and support, bring a healthy baby into the world. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Sorry, you're just going to have to come clean. To your parents and boyfriend.
If you don't think you can handle the baby, put it up for adoption. And LEARN from this exprerience. Be more careful in the future, even if you have to go celibate and abstain for awhile it will be better than getting unwanted children. I suggest that you wait until you're married, then this problem won't arise in the future!
Does your school have a counselor? then talk to him/her.
Also you will have to see a doctor if you want a healthy pregnancy.

Answer 5

You should really consider going to a planned parenthood. They will have all sorts of options for you. And they have lots of experience with this sort of thing.

For your sake, I hope I never see you on Jerry Springer. Make the right choice.

Answer 6

You're just going to have to tell them straight out. As long as you're honest, they'll help you. They're probably going to be extremly mad, but they love you enough to help you out. And you'll probably want to hook up with an adoption agency to find parents for your child. My best advice for next time is to wait until you're marrried :) Then you won't be stuck in this situation.

Answer 7

Go to your parents and be as honest with them as you can and explain it was an accident and that you need their help and support. Sure they may be upset with you for a bit, but they will forgive you and will help you. Just give them a chance.