Im comfused on wut to do my ex girlfriend dumped me a lil while bak becuz she sed she was confused about her feelings and this will help out our relationship. she still tells me she loves me and i love her i think she is my soulmate and she thought the same, we still see each other intimitly but she has hooked up wit another boy from her skool jus kissed a few times she says she likes him but loves me and shes confused and it hurts to hear her say that and know she kissed another guy on 3 occasions. but still comes to me im comfused on wut to do i want us to be bak together but she broke up wit me i cant ask her out she has to make a decision, and she always gets mad at me for no reason at all i dont understand it we still act as a couple but we arnt and it hurts alot please will someone help me out with this and give me some advice on wut to do, wut to say to her or something please.....thankyou
2006-08-04 14:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a really nice guy. Your emotions and your feelings seem genuine and true. (Wish there were more of you). However it's time to let go and let flow.
Your ex-girlfriend has all the control right now and she knows it. She probably puts you off and and makes you think that you have done something to upset her...this is just a manipulative tactic.
She's trying to play two games at once...
What you need to do is go have some fun!
Yes fun...I know that's some weird advice...but it will help and ease the pain.
Hang out with some close friends...and take your mind off your ex-relationship.
When you see your ex-girlfriend appear to be very happy and nonchalant...she'll start to ask herself why she left you in the first place.
hope this works!
Act happy, if you can't then fake it until you make it
2006-08-04 14:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by The Urban Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing my ex broke up with me a month ago. But she still calls me and wants to talk and we still see each other.She never told me she hooked up with somone but i wouldnt dout it cause shes been going out alot.I think if you really love her you should fight for her till the end.Go and find that guy and beat him down.And then stop calling her for a little while shell come back.
2006-08-04 14:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life as if she's not directly there always on your mind. If you find an attractive girl to date, then date her. Maybe the separation and seemingly lack of interest from you will make her speed up that decision process. I think she's just leaning on you b/c you ARE there when she wants you and blah blah. Guys usually do this to their ex' g/fs.
2006-08-04 14:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your ex dosn't want anything to do with you as of now. She wants to go around experiment with other guys and have you as a "rebound" guy, thats why she keeps telling you that she loves you so you could still stay attached to her. My opinion I think you should move on if she was your soul mate and she thought you were her soul mate she would never do that to you, sorry to be the one to break it to you but shes playing with your heart, move on with your life you deserve better.
2006-08-04 14:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel if she says she is still confused or some crap like that .she likes you not loves you if she is going out with some other guy she is just using you like if she gets dumped she will have you as a back up let her go and move on.
i'm a girl i should kno right
2006-08-04 14:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by GREATGRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be happy. Is this making you happy? It doesn't sound that way.
You also need to stop being intimate with a girl who is sleeping with other guys. You will end up getting sick, maybe with something that will be with you for the rest of your life.
2006-08-04 14:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by bugnscout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you put up with that ? Are you a p*ssy ? No your NOT !! So your not gonna take that sh*t from any slit!
Your gonna look her right in the face and say " look , quit yapping and get to polishing my knob . "
GOT IT ?!
GO BACK AND RECLAIM YOUR BALLS!!!
2006-08-04 14:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end it. It doesnt seem worth the trouble.
2006-08-04 14:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loved you she wouldn't have been with someone else. let it go. she just wants to play around & she knows you'll be there when she's done. how would she like it if u were with someone else? ditch her.
2006-08-04 14:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by puppamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you should start kissing other girls. You may want to move on.
2006-08-04 14:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by LJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋