I need help on how to break up with my girlfriend. We had a pretty long relationship, but i just want to move on. What should i say and do?
2006-08-04 14:30:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her about your concerns & tell her how serious you are about them. If you do it this way, you will prevent a possible stalker. If you spring this on her all of a sudden, you're in trouble....Trust me, I know.
2006-08-04 14:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first, don't do it on the phone. THAT'S THE WORSE WAY TO DO IT!!! Don't do it like, just randomly either. Just take her some where romantic and let her off gently. I know it's hard, but maybe even blame yourself. Say you just need some freedom and that she deserves someone who really loves her. Than drive her home. Beware flying objects though because there's no such thing as a peaceful break up.
2006-08-04 14:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by TreeHugger28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no nice to break up with someone, its going to hurt no matter what. Your best bet is to be honest about your feelings, no one likes to hear bs. If you do it any other way you might end up hurting her more by leading her on thinking there will be another chance of you guys getting together. just tell her that you need to see what else is out there and its something you have to do...
2006-08-04 14:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her exactly what you want.
Dear ___,
I'm sorry, but this just isn't working for me. I've been thinking for the past few days and well..I just want to move on..I hope you feel the same way..because I don't want this to go in a wrong way. I still care about you, and just wanna be friends.
Uh yeah...I'm just making this up..so cha..tell her how you feel.
2006-08-04 16:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is firmly tell her that you don't feel the same way you used and will not be seeing her anymore. It is cruel to postpone the enevitable. Just take a deep breath and say it. She probably knows already though
2006-08-04 14:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a girl, be gentle but don't use the overused phrases like "it's not you it's me" because we all know what you really mean... it IS her. Tell her what you really think. And don't do it at some public place where you can embarass each other. Set her down easy and good luck!
2006-08-04 14:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by italianchic1606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind and honest. Don't get into a heated fight about it or act meanly towards her. She is going to be hurt and might act in a lot of different ways, but in respect for the length of your relationship, please take responsibility and be as nice as possible under the circumstances.
2006-08-04 14:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could sit down with her and tell her on the level that it's just not working for you any more, and there's nothing that can be done. Or... you can take the chicken s%$t way out and make her life miserable until she gets pissed off enough to dump you.
:-)
2006-08-04 14:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her, in a quiet place with NO ONE around, tell her you have lost your feelings for her, and you want to move on.
2006-08-04 14:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by goodcharlottefreak040404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt i still got her for like.............9 years
dont break her heart tell her during the sex i think this will work my freind did the same thing and she accepted it without any shocks(what suprise me is she finished the sex and then went away)
2006-08-04 14:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋