well, i have all types of girlfriend. mostly white women, i some how get attracted to most of them. i also do have alot of attractions to whitegirls i see in my college, but i always feel that they look down on me because im asian. they seem to give this look like " forget about it". so it turns me down. do you think i think too much or i dont know, what should i do to gain confidence.
2006-08-04 14:12:29 · 18 answers · asked by funky_homosapien 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sh*t man. Asians rock. Tiger Woods is asian. And intelligent white girls do dig asians.
If this girl doesn't like you, you're better off w/o her.
Just get some more confidence and expect that ALL girls, white/black/asian/hispanic/etc. will like you and your whole world will change.
Just be proud of what you do well and continue to build confidence. That's the key.
2006-08-12 08:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that you should have a feeling as to whether a girl is attracted to you or not before you ask them out. If you are just walking up to girls you have never met before and asking them out, I'm not surprised they they might turn you down. It might not have anything to do with being Asian. Get to know someone at least a little first. Attraction should be more than looks. A girl sends signals if she is interested. Try becoming friends first before jumping into dating. Sometimes just being a friend leads to something more, and then you know that they are attracted to more than your good looks.
2006-08-12 20:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by tjb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree that u are thinking about it to much , but (being a white girl myself)i as well as others know how smart Asians are as well as 95% stylin'...So that can be a Lil intimidating. I suggest making your self more approachable with warm smiles and a high head.Also, give yourself some credit....start doing all the approaching to others that u can!!! good luck
2006-08-12 17:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by eve11en 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all they look down on you because it is a well known & doccumented fact that Asian guys have the shortest d**ks in the world. Now stop and think,if you were a girl, would you want to date a short d**ked guy? Hell no. Now would you want to date a girl with a big hole?
2006-08-12 16:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well stop thinking of it in terms of race and start thinking about it in terms of personality, common interests. if you like white girls than find one who doesn't care what race you are but how special you can make her feel. think of it this way. if you can give this girl the world and you can make her feel special than you have nothing to worry about, because you want what's best for her. so keep telling yourself that and in the end you'll have yourself a date, because you kept telling yourself your worth the time and effort and you'll boost your confidence. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-12 18:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre thinking about it too much. A lot of people dont like to date outside there race but there are a lot who do. Go for it anyway. I think you'll be suprised. Play the friend angle... but not too much.. you dont want to get stuck in the friends zone.
2006-08-04 21:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by howdy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should ask. she might go out with u. there's nothing wrong with being asian. people from different cultures can date some1 different. if she does turn u down, just keep a positive attitude and try another girl.
2006-08-12 20:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by gelly700 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and forget about them, but maybe they are trying to tell you something? don't know and cant give you much advice on the subject except to give life all you got and don't hold yourself up on count of a couple of white girls
2006-08-12 20:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by happy go lucky tonight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you look wimpy and insecure to them. Correct your posture! Hold your head up! Where's your moxy? Conviction? Speak to them with authority in your voice!!!
Seriously. Confidence is a winner. Even if you have to pretend.
2006-08-12 20:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should always appreciate that u are asian and i think that you will be a great person no matter who u decide to date it dont matter what color race or anything it matters whats inside your heart just always go with whats in your heart and dont care what people says just as long as u are happy thats all that matters
2006-08-12 21:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by babyface_1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋