I have known this guy since 4th grade. He has liked me since then. I went out with him in the beginning of our 9th grade yr. & i broke up with him cuz i thought i liked some boy more than him & i thought that other boy would go out with me but instead he was just playing games. so now i haven't had a real relationship since like Oct. (when we b/up)& now he has moved on he has a gf & i don't wanna break them up. but i want him. he still tells me he luvs me. and i know now that i share that same feeling. but i don't know if i should tell him that. cuz if i told him that i don't want to be the cause of their b/up. i know i should have never b/up with him and i can't take it back now but i wish i could. would telling him how i truely feel about him be a stupid thing to do or would it be a smart thing to do? so i can either hopefully get him back or if he still doesn't take me back well then i know i tried and i can just move on. im gonna tell him no matter what. I just wanted some advice.
2006-08-04 14:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby look you have to tell him! Love is a gift from god with out it the world is nothing. If you love him and he loves you i say go for it. You wont be breakin them up because you are not puttin a gun to his head and telling him to do it, you are telling him your feelings, the truth. In the end it is up to him to break up with her not u. Girl dont miss out on a chance of true happiness because you may never have it again think about that!
2006-08-04 14:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by Babydollz 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He still likes you but has a g/f because you were "taken". Telling him will only get him back with the girl that he wants...you. It's a very good thing to do, as long as you wait until he breaks up with her. (Cause sometimes guys will go back to their old g/f without breaking up with their new one.)
Good luck!
2006-08-04 14:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my case, i wait for him, but usually by then i'm already over him. sorry i caouldn't help any, sorry... good luck and i hope u get a b/f.... i had the same problem, my ugly, horney, trailer-trashy cousin decided that she would make me mad and ask my ex out, while i was geting over breaking up with him, so yeah, kinda not similar, but i really tried to help... âº
2006-08-04 14:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♫♥Ashlyn♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell him how you feel and see what happens from there because if he still has feelings for you then he will take you back but if he doesn't then he will stay with his gurl and you should move on and find someone who will truly love you. good luck
2006-08-04 14:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell him. But don't expect him to break up with his current girlfriend, just let him know how you feel.
Good luck on this.
2006-08-04 20:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Z, unnecessary letter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say a smart its a Good thing if you just tell him how you truly feel
2006-08-04 14:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by daisyalv11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is telling you he loves you while dating another girl, are you sure he's the right kind of guy for you?
I'd probably wait until their relationship imploded as it probably will if he's really that stuck on you
2006-08-04 14:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by dharma_claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him he might wanna break up with his gf right now anyway
2006-08-04 14:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by joshb2k4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the chance wont hurt anything but on the other hand it may make him feel really awchward around you...
2006-08-04 14:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be honest, just be prepared, you don't always get the response you are hoping for
2006-08-04 14:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by densil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋