What is the meaning of my symptoms?

Question

Dear friends, my boyfriend doubted me and he made me really upset last night when we were talking on the phone.He linked me with other men and kept condeming my love for him.He said I dont know what is love and he keeps linking me with other men when i only love him and have him in my heart.LAst night, i went out with my sister to the shopping mall and i had to park the car. He called me to my mobile and i had to talk to him fast and hang up the call.When I called him back, he kept breaking me by telling me that i was with another men and the whole night he was criticising me and inflicting pain in me till at one point, I just crashed my mobile phone on the floor and suffered from difficulties in breathing and i was suffocating. He was talking so low abt my love to him tht i cudn't take it.I was breathless for nearly 20 minutes till I went outside the house at 5a.m to get some air.this is the 1st time i'm experiancing this.What is this mean?thanks for helping me.

Answer 1

it means it's time for you to find a different guy

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Most people who are that jealous of their BF or GF are actually cheaters themselves. That's why they can't imagine that somebody would be faithful to them. A truly faithful man will not have cause to doubt you.

This guy is a LUNATIC. CRAZY.

Nobody rants and raves like that and goes off on somebody for no reason, unless they are nuts.

Sweetie, you do not NEED that s*** -- dump his a**

By the way... the breathless stuff is called hyperventilation.
Anybody would have a similar attack if they had to listen to that crap for that long. It's a symptom, not an illness, and it will go away right after that moron gets out of your life forever.

Answer 4

Okay, let me assure you that your symptoms are probably not related to some sort of physical problem, but they were most likely a cause of the sudden emotional and psychological trauma you experienced. Well it wasnt exactly trauma, but i think you are probably very in love and attached to this guy, so whatever he said to you must have really hurt you and therefore the physical symptoms you experienced were compensating for your emotionality.

You need to take it easy. Realize that nothing is permanent and everything is temporary. And frankly.....life isnt meant to be perfect. If he doesnt trust you, then you know what, let it go. that is his fault. and i know it must be difficult, but do you really want a guy that doesnt trust you and what you do? and to me, he seems overly possessive and controlling to. trust me you do NOT want a man like that. have some confidence in yourself and realize that your a woman and as a woman, you dont always need to rely on a man to keep you happy and that you should be strong enough to stand on your own, if you need to. You deserve somebody that trusts you and if this guy doesnt....leave.

Easier said than done, but its the truth hun. Best of luck

Answer 5

It sounds like you might have been hyperventillating. Sometimes this happends due to Stress. It could also be a minor anxiety attack.
It sounds like you and your boyfriend need to sit down and talk. Ask him why exactly he feels this way. Not just to give you 1 or 2 reasons but to give you many. Be prepared for the conversation, emotionally speaking. If he starts getting like that night, repeat to him that you are not attacking him or anything, to calm down. Try and explain to him that you are confused, don't understand what is going on with him, don't understand why he is feeling this way, and also tell him that he needs to be careful with his words because you are not feeling that good, health wise.

It also sounds like you should go get a check up. Your symtoms don't sound like a big deal but you never know.

Also,keep in mind that lots of times when people accuse you of cheating or not loving them is because they are reflecting their own feelings on to you. In another words it might be that HE is doubting his feelings for you or he is cheating on you.

Good Luck....And try and take it easy...both of you.

Answer 6

It sounds like you were having a panic attack or possibly hyperventilating. It can cause breathlessness when you are very anxious or agitated. Breathing into a brown paper bag can help!

It might still be worth getting it checked out by the doctor though.

Answer 7

sounds like just a panic or anxiety attack brought on by emotional stress. If the difficulty breathing continues or pops up during activities as times that you don't feel stressed, see a doctor. In the future when it happens, try sitting on a stool or chair, placing your head between your knees and taking deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth.

Answer 8

It sounds like you were having a panic attack caused by anxiety and stress. Your chest gets tight (it almost feels like someone sitting on it) and you have trouble breathing. You may feel tingling in your hands and feet and feel lightheaded and nauseated.

In my personal humble opinion, it sounds like your boyfriend is looking for a way to make you break up with him. He keeps accusing you of things that both of you know are not true. It sounds like he wants to break up with you but doesn't want to take the responsibility of ending the relationship. Do both of you a favour & end it for him. Then, you can move on to someone who is worth your time and who loves you and wants to be with you and you alone.

Answer 9

You had an anxiety attack. Aside from that, you're suffering from low self-esteem. You don't have to tolerate someone who is mentally, verbally, and emotionally abusive. It's no different than if her were to physically abuse you. I am willing to bet he pressures you for sex when you aren't feeling quite up to it. I'm sure he makes you feel guilty about "his" issues. Honey, that is abuse. You need to understand that you are beautiful and there is someone out there who will appreciate you and love you the way you deserve to be loved and appreciated. He is insecure, mean, self-centered, and (in case I haven't driven it in strongly enough) ABUSIVE. Find the strength inside you to let him go. Be the strong, beautiful, confident woman I know you can be.

Answer 10

This is the classic sighn of a severe anxitey attack. I know because I've had them. The ony cure is to breathe deeply and dump you boyfriend. It will only get worse if you continue the relationship. He doesn't trust you, for whatever reason, and will continue his posessive behavior. Get out now!!

Answer 11

It means your bf is such a jerk, he gave you a panic attack. You had a panic or anxiety attack because he got you so worked up. Tell this guy to take a long walk off a short pier, and never talk to him again. You deserve WAY better.