HE was the best BF I ever had but I think I only went out with him because I wanted a boyfriend.
2006-08-04 13:59:32 · 24 answers · asked by Crazy Rocker Hippie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what?!?!?!? some of you people are so judgmental. I really do like him but he lives 5 hoursaway from me! i do! i like him as a BF but hes too far!
2006-08-04 14:08:53 · update #1
be honest and straightforward...
2006-08-04 14:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the receiver of many a broken heart I can truthfully say that its best to be very straightforward. Do not leave any room for "maybe", or "I guess"... Tell him:
1. You're thought long and hard about this.
2. You hate to tell you this because You know it will break his heart. This is hard for you to say... but.
3. You know you'll both be better off.
4. This is the end.
5. No, you don't think its a good idea to still be friends. That will only make things more difficult. It's hard enough as it is.
2006-08-04 14:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'm thinking, if he is the best BF you've ever had, then why are you breaking up with him???? Good guys are hard to come by, think twice about this girlfriend!!!
If you're still bent on breaking it off with him, just be honest. His heart will break, no way around it. Your heart will ache a while too. Life moves on and so will both of you!
2006-08-04 14:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 03:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by baty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's the best y r u breaking up with him? Well, if you've made up Ur mind about it, it doesnt have 2 b permanent does it? Tell him u just need a break 2 make up ur mind about the relationship;that u need time 2 think. If I was u, I would go on the dating scene 4 awhile& when u c how bad it is & how much bastards r out there, you'll c how quick u run back 2 him!! I think it would b wise 2 keep him on the back burner. But thats just my advice...........
2006-08-04 14:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bab-E@Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. He'll be hurt, yes, but better to break it off now than string him along in a relationship you know isn't going to work. Be straightforward and honest, and let him know that you think he's a nice guy but you really just aren't into him.
2006-08-04 14:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First talk to him about what he did to upset you. If he doesn't change, just say he's the best BF you've ever had, but maybe it's time to start seeing other people.
2006-08-04 14:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by rockymountaindramaqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to break his heart...unless the relationship is truly over and he is waiting for it to end he will get hurt...badly too from his perspective.
There's really only one thng you can do...get it over with quick. Breaking up is like pulling a band-aid: do it fast and move on; anything else is going to hurt like hell.
2006-08-04 14:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u could wait Little longer and if u cant then try your best to tell him in a friendly way!!! or maybe write him a note nicly! i would just come out and say it nicly on the phone, but its more abd better to say it in person, i would be as nice as i could be! i understand u dont want to break his heart, but hun u got to tell him some time... do it now!!! email me if u want to!!! i can explain more... bradfordlovesbo@yahoo.com talk to u then.. i hope!!!
2006-08-04 14:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say " This isn't working out for me.. I don't want to date anyone right now." Don't worry, if he is a good boyfriend material like you say, he'll find someone else in no time.
2006-08-04 14:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As opposed to going out with him because you didn't want a boyfriend?
Isn't this like returning a car because it is too good of a car?
2006-08-04 14:03:38 · answer #11 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋