i was home and my ex boyfriend called me and he told me to come out side and meet him, so i did... and he told me to sit on him, and i told him that i rather stand, but he insisted and he pull me on him and wrap his arms around.... so now we were sittin' , he kiss me, more than once....... and i kiss him back once, and i knew it was wrong and i was trying to get up, but he still insisted i sit wit him alittle while......... but i couldnt because my conscience was bothering.. please no silly answers..... i dont want to end up losing my boyfriend cause i love him. and worse of all i cheated on my boyfriend once with this guy, so please help! NO SILLY ANSWERS!
2006-08-04 13:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by beautyprincess 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i already told him the cheating part, he forgave me......... long time ago.
2006-08-04 14:06:05 · update #1
Just keep it hush hush. What he don't know won't hurt him.
2006-08-04 13:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by sharkie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl,
I think everyone is missing the point. Your problem is not that you "cheated" on your boyfriend. The problem is that he is pushing you sexually where you don't want to go...right?
I saw on a different post that you said he "loves you dearly". Someone who loves you dearly respects you, your desires, and beliefs. You need to get rid of him and learn to be happy hanging out with your girlfriends for a while. Sounds like you are way too young to have a serious boyfriend anyway.
Trust me, been there, done that. A boyfriend "loving" you is not the only important thing in life. You have to love yourself, and you have to allow friends to love you, and most of all you have to realize that Jesus loves you. Once you have those down, you are ready for a healthy relationship...one where your boyfriend will not push you to do things you are not ready for!
2006-08-05 12:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about how you would feel if you found out your boyfriend did something like that to you, would you keep him around? You should tell him so he can move on and find someone who will love him and treat him the way he deserves.
2006-08-04 20:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are inappropriate as a girlfriend. Tell your boyfriend the truth (all of it, especially the cheating part) so that he knows why he has to dump you.
2006-08-04 21:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your boyfriend. tell him that it didnt mean anything and that he made you. if you dont your ex could go and tell him or try and blackmail you.
2006-08-04 21:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by swimgurl805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it slide. why punish your b/f for your indiscretion
2006-08-04 20:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how fast you want to lose your boy-friend,,, you better let dead-dogs lie.... keep it to yourself.
2006-08-04 21:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probly keeping alot from you too, so dont worry about..
2006-08-04 21:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it to urselffff!
2006-08-04 20:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by ♥SexylOve16♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋