2006-08-04 13:52:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was quite stupid, but I did the "shut up, smile and nod" dealie. It actually did more harm than good. For a while it was helping and everything was great, but then I couldn't do it anymore (plus I realized that I was compromising my standards for a man who made me feel like crap).
2006-08-04 13:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Alecto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would've given one of my organs if it would've been necessary to save a relationship I once held so dearly... I sacrificed so much than after it was all said and done I felt like I had given it all... and felt exhausted... tired... and then realized that before you are ready to make big sacrifices one has to assess the situation and examine why has it come to the point where sacrifices must be made... And before making any sacrifices, think "would I reap the results I am looking for?" "would this make me happy?" "would this actually save the relationship"
2006-08-12 15:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by goddessofchaos50 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider anything I've done for the relationship I'm in as a sacrifice. Everything I've done has been out of love and therefor done freely.
2006-08-04 20:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
put my feelings and egoistical thoughts aside.
put my time and effort for saving the relationship
put my understandings, beliefs and faith into helping make a connection
those are the good things
put my life on hold
disregarded my own feelings and integrity as well as self worth
forfeited others (more important) for the relationship
these are bad things
So it depends. Can you think clearly whether the relationship is really worth it? Then, it shud be right by God and good conscience as well. If not, drop it. You most probably be hurting yourself (too much) and acting in insult to all that God has given to you. Your life and love.
2006-08-04 21:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To save my relationship I have dont many dumb things that looking back make me think..What in the world were you thinking?? I have chased woman and threatened them. I have begged and pleaded. I have given up my self...Not to proud of those past moments to say the least....Its hard when you love someone and dont understand what went wrong..
2006-08-12 12:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by mari p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have tried to save a relationship in the past but it didn't work out.
he wanted me to give him my virginity and i said i would to make him happy but before i had a chance i caught him and my cousin ******* in his bed so then he called me like a week later wanting to explain so we met at the beach and he told me what happened but i wasn't trying to hear it so when i was going back to my car he pushed me in his and tried to rape me so now i don't sacrifice for relationships if it doesn't work then it doesn't work
2006-08-04 21:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by grant_lilmama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can be secific on what type of sacrifice i would make to save my relation, but if my relationship is anything thats worth saving, i would do whatever humanly possible to save it.
2006-08-12 11:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by supersadies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing... I just saved myslef. I didn't bother holding on to the relationship when my ex was interested with somebody else.
2006-08-12 12:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by zira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
risked my reputation, put all on the line, backing off, giving space, continuing to love but from a distance, giving freely of my love without asking for anything in return but I have no regrets as I didn't have a choice..It just was....I know, convoluted form of love,,I'm to be pitied as I'm pitiful........
2006-08-04 20:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by silhouette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sacrificed a couple of animals but she got all creeped out and left anyways. Women, go figure.
2006-08-04 20:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋