how to elaborate... I don't know which one I want more. One is a relationship here and another is an internet thing. Thing is, I'm terribly attached to both of them but I don't know what the more logical choice is or how to stop myself from wanting either of them. they arnt complex relationhips, there is no sex or money involved. We are young, we are all stupid, but I need to learn this lesson now I think.
2006-08-04 13:37:19 · 8 answers · asked by morningwillowkisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No sex, no money, no harm, no foul. Let things take their course and you will naturally figure out the one you prefer. The one you would worry about most would be the flesh and blood relationship in person - if it makes you feel that guilty, you might cut it off with the internet person.
2006-08-04 13:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 23⤊ 8⤋
You and only you can decide. What you need to do is get out of your relationship, because you are not faithful to him and that is a horrible thing to do and be honest with both of them and most importantly, yourself. Take your time, your young.
2006-08-04 13:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by jinxed_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ones an internet thing then go with the person you actually see. Would you rather see or IM with them?
2006-08-04 13:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take the one your actaully in the relantionship with but that is if i was in your shoes.. the internet thing you've never met the person in person so u don't know how the person acts.. and be true to the one you've known longer.. but that is just what i would of done
2006-08-04 13:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have an opinion on who to choose. I will say you need to choose now though. Suck it up and do it. You're going to have to lose one, but you'll get to keep the other one. What you're doing right now is just down right $hitty.
2006-08-04 13:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm curious why you ask? properly i used to be in simple terms such as you, i could not are conscious of all of it, it looked lots greater rational to easily circulate away then circulate on, why placed everybody in the time of the discomfort, why stay the double existence. properly i understand now. i grew to become into continuously the single being cheated on, went by using it distinctive cases yet i did not cheat. i grew to become into an business enterprise believer in being committed. till sometime i grew to become into approached on the incorrect day, the incorrect time, the incorrect subject and that i fumbled. i grew to become into presently being strung alongside with my dating, spent all my spare time crying or getting decrease than the effect of alcohol, unable to handle not understanding what grew to become into happening and why! whilst i grew to become into asked an rather blunt question, it caught me thoroughly off guard, yet i found out wow somebody does desire to spend time with me and loads of of alternative thoughts got here not a techniques in the back of. i grew to become into continuously that guy or woman who might desire to on no account understand. Now i'm the guy who knows all too properly. in spite of the shown fact that. happy observe, we've made it by using and got here out on the different facet of the two our affairs. in simple terms on no account say on no account! EDIT~Thats quite super which you have been able to try this and be the place you're as acquaintances at present. As terrible as an adventure as i've got had i nevertheless does not commerce it because of the fact it gave me the adventure and perception that I certainly have at present.
2016-12-11 06:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your real boyfriend. Your internet boyfriend has no way of having a bond as strong as is possible with your real boyfriend.
Good luck!
2006-08-04 14:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are underage, then enjoy both...
when you are older, then problems occur...
2006-08-04 13:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋