Does she like me?

Question

So, I met this girl about a 2 weeks ago. I fell for her almost immidiately. Like a dumbass I sent her flowers. She thanked me saying it "made her day" blah blah.
She asked me why I sent them and all I said was that I was 'reatarded' and I was'nt sure why ! A few days later some D-bag did the same thing and sent her flowers.
When I found out I was pretty pissed but decided that she was way outta my league and the other guy prolly deserved her. Like a complete 'retard" i sent her
more flowers, I was really pissed at myself for sending her more flowers so I called her and told her that my friends were trying to play a prank on me and used my
debit card to buy flowers and that I was really sorry. Ever since then we meet (once a day max) and she has always been really nice, made small conversationshas waved etc.
Then about 2 days she went "mental" and started ignoring me. I work with her roomate and because all this was driving me nuts I decided to ask her to help me.

So the next night her roomate asked her if she liked the flowers from me. She replied saying that the flowers were not from me and that my freinds had bought them using my money.
(The story I told her). Her roomate was unaware of this white lie and told her the truth. That I had actually bougth her the flowers but was too chiken to tell her so.
So she was like "omg, that makes me feel so much better, thats so sweet". Then she added that she felt sorry for the other dbag that sent her flowers because she had to send him an email
saying she was not looking for a relationship as she was too busy. I met her today again and it was a simple hi/bye. Is she pissed because i lied/ becsuse iam a *****?
I have never been so confused in my life. Does she like me? How come I have not got an email saying she is too busy for a realatioship?

Answer 1

Perhaps she's not too happy that you lied, but I'm sure it just made her laugh above all and think it was sweet, I know I would. The fact that she sent this other guy an email, and not you, suggests that she is interested in you. Just be honest with her, tell her how you feel! If things don't work out, too bad, but if you don't try, you'll always regret it!

Answer 2

well first off, quit calling yourself a retard, you're not one you just like a girl. second girls love it when you send them flowers lol im a girl i should know, so you did nothing wrong. up until the point where you lied to her about sending the flowers, the best way would be to tell her straight up how you feel about her. if she said she wasnt looking for a relationship then she probably isnt right now but she may still like you. just be blunt with her, next time you see her tell her " hey i really like you, do you feel the same way?" you should find out.
it's better to find out directly from that person so there's no confusion.

good luck

Aaron's Angel

Answer 3

Bro, you acted like a wuzz. Forget about her. She is being nice to you, but she doesn't respect you as a man.

What the heck were you thinking in sending flowers to a girl you barely met???

Maybe she is the type to marry on the spot. Or maybe she is the psycho type who appears in every video of "Girls Gone Wild". You don't know anything about this woman.

You are there trying to get her approval. Forget about that. You don't need their approval. You can bet anything that she thinks you are just cute and annoying at best, or a wimp and a wuzz that she has to be polite towards to at worse.

Next time you met a girl, play it cool. Don't act desperate sending flowers and spending so much mental energy thinking whether she likes you or not.

If she likes you, fine. If not, who cares. If not her, another one will be. Or maybe not if you keep acting like that.

Learn to control yourself. Be a man in charge of your impulses. Act corteous and like a gentleman always, but also display self-confidence; show them that you don't necessarily care whether they like you or not. Women like that. Women respect that. Women look that in a man.

Desperation leads to m@sturbation sadly. Don't act desperate or needy. Otherwise, they'll think of you like a needy weirdo, or worse, a psycho.

Good luck.

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check askmen.com sometime. That site has excellent articles in the situation you are just going through ;)

Answer 4

hahhah lol ummm to start with you sound like a neet person ... just give up the shyness **** and ask this girl directly face to face , in person [no emails, flowers or third parties allowed] IF she will go out with you. You will get a yes (hopefully) or an Hmmm Ill have to think about it (bad), or a "go **** yourself you flower smelling loser" (worst) you owe it to yourself to try, or else you will go thru the rest of your life [dick in hand] wondering "if"?

Answer 5

instead of asking the 25 million people in Yahoo. Why dont you ask her. I thing you will get a better answer. Write a note. Leave a note. Write it on the wall. But get out of the shell and be somebody

Answer 6

Dude-pick yourself up and get your damn head together!! Why would you lie to her about the flowers-it makes no sense at all??
I think you blew it with her-and thats too bad.You had a good thing goin with her for a while there!!And if your doin' drugs you better stop right now-they're eatin your brain up!!!

Answer 7

the email to the other guy was probably just a nice way of telling him she wasn't interested.

if you really like this girl, don't be affected by how intimidating she might seem. girls like confidence, and unless you portray yourself as confident, you might be getting that next email.

to find out if she likes you, why don't you just ask her out? you don't have to be cheesy and say something like, "will you go on a date with me?" you could just say, "hey, would you like to go out and get some coffee sometime?" (or whatever variation.) see how the evening goes, and by the end of it you could very well just tell her that you're interested in her.

honesty is a good policy. either way you go, she will be flattered by your interest.

Answer 8

not to be rude or anything, but NOT REALLY!!!!!!!!!!!
maybe it wouldve helped if you had told her y u sent the flowers, not saying you were being retarted, cuz thats kind of a turn-off......

Answer 9

She likes you, you need to talk to her- quit being retarded and ask her out on a real date.

Answer 10

it doesnt seem like she does. it sounds more like a fling to me. but if u try a lil harder like candy n a date. then she will open up more n the answer if she likes u or not will b more obivous