I really like this girl and care about her and when i was with her tonight and walked her all the way home I tried to make a move and she pulled back and then when I told her how I feel about her and how much I care about her she said she thinks I'm bullshiting and she doesn't believe me! I asked her how can I prove to you that I really care about you and she said I can't. She is abit shy and I'm not sure what seems to be the problem here! Can someone help me please by telling me in a sensible way what I should do to make her believe me and want me?!?!
2006-08-04 12:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Romance, romance, and oh yeah, did I say romance? A sure fire way of convincing a woman of how you feel is to show her how you feel. First and foremost, she has to know she's your only girl. Do that by not having other girlfriends for example (an obvious suggestion, but believe it or not some men need to be told that). Next, make her feel special. Get her flowers. Set up a special date. Make her feel like a million dollars by planning out a romantic evening. A romantic evening depends on the type of girl she is. Find out what she likes to do and make plans around that type of activities. You get the point.
2006-08-04 13:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by yayachicky 2 · 12⤊ 6⤋
You might have come on a bit strong for her! Shy girls take longer to get close to but it's worth the effort...
All you have to do is just stick with her! Reassure her! Don't make her feel like you are just saying it to get into her knickers...some men are like that and I imagine that she knows this which is why she has said that to you. Dont keep telling her how you feel, just show it. Treat her right, make sure she can see it...hearing it doesnt mean anything, she has to see that you really do care for her then she will open up to you...just give it time! All the best and good luck!!
2006-08-04 19:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep telling her,ask how her day was,just keep hanging out with her than when there is an opening go for it make a move!
2006-08-04 19:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Viva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and deeds will prove more than mere words.If you are serious about this girl then you should be happy to prove to her how you feel over a long period of time,not try to show her instantly ! If you are genuine you should be only too happy to prove to her how you feel !
2006-08-04 19:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont pester her cos that's a no no.. Just be cool and see what happens in a day or two.. Then if she's still bein funny,give up on her and get another woman.. That is guaranteed to get her back up..
2006-08-04 19:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make another move on her until you're sure she feels the same way about you. just keep telling her that you like her, and enjoy being around her.
2006-08-04 20:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things the other way round next time, be really understanding and listen to how she feels/thinks about yo, then tell her how you feel about her, then wait.... It's all about patience m8 ;-)))
2006-08-04 19:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by MyCatBennyWhoRocksBigTime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOO i got a good one! i know its cheezy but it'll work so fast it'll make your head spin!
bring her a big boque of roses to her one day and tell her one more time!!!!
2006-08-04 19:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time if shes worth it you'll keep your cool and wait. most blokes these days just want one thing and that might be what shes worried about.
2006-08-04 19:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by muffinplattsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. . . when she pulled back you should have told her that wasn't a banana in your pocket - you were just pleased to see her (more bullshit?) . . .
2006-08-04 19:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋