She's always calling me, about where I am and what I am doing. It is so none of her buiseness. She's never in my sister's buisenss, and I don't get it... Why me?She is really annoying, and I have a bad temper and I want to know, what do I do?
2006-08-04 12:28:26 · 4 answers · asked by Casey Pearl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, you dont say in your question, so my answer's going to have two parts.
1) if you are under the age of 18 and/or still living at home, then she has every right to be in your business. she's your mother and is genuinely concerned for your well-being. it's as simple as that. she's not doing it specifically to bother you, but if you feel that you need to understand why, i suggest (calmly) sitting down and talking with her about it. ask her if you've done anything to cause her to doubt your judgement. if no, then ask her to respect your ability to make decisions and make the right choices. do all of this CALMLY, or it will just annoy her.
2) if you are, in fact, an adult and have moved out, then i suggest you explain that fact to her and let her know that you are no longer a child and, as an adult, need to have certain boundaries and privacies that you need her to respect. explain that she's smothering you, and that its causing you some angst. she'll understand.
2006-08-04 12:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the way you spell and the bad temper comment, I'd say you're still young enough that she NEEDS to be in your business.
2006-08-04 19:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by gimli_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't yo ask your mom why she insists on checking up on you but not your sister? maybe something you did in the past tells your mom you're not as trustworthy or you need more guidance. try to understand why she is always checking up on you without getting her angry or upset. if you sit down with her and explain yourself like a mature adult, maybe she'll realize that this really does upset you and you're mature enough to handle yourself.
2006-08-04 19:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You thank god for a mother that loves you! For a mother that cares for YOU! Thank your mother too! You are so lucky to have such a mother, You may not yet realize how lucky you are but take it from me one day you will be thankful. Tell your mom you love her and thank her for all she does! It's her job to be in your business!
2006-08-04 19:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋