Here is the deal...My Boyfriend of about two years...and I are not talking...rather he is not talking....but I am. We had a very minor disagreement...and he now wants to be alone to think things out. Since we have been dating he has told me that I am the one....he wants to marry me....he never met anyone like me...he truly swept me off my feet...and I believed him. Now this. So I text messaged him and he said he needs time...this has been going on for four days now. I am getting myself sick over this....he just won't talk to me...and believe me the spat was minor...and it was directed at me...so I should be the one not talking. I am willing to work things out....how do I get through to this man...and we are not kids...we are adults...but he certainly is not acting like one....
2006-08-04 12:12:16 · 7 answers · asked by rita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats acting like a child, move on get you a real man
2006-08-04 12:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something i would do. Not sure what the argument was about, but some guys need some time to cool off. I've had a similar situation happen to me just recently. If he really means what he says about you, then wait for him to call you. Persistence is not always a good thing, not in this situation. Just let him cool off, see what happens. But don't push him, because he may become annoyed by it. Hope that helps you. Good luck.
2006-08-04 19:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make yourself sick over it and do what is best for you, not what others advise,because they aren't involved emotionally. It's easy for people to say do this or that, but you have to make the decision. We as women want to fix the problem now, men want to get quiet and think about things. I know how you feel, and sometimes when we say things to the guys, they are taken wrong. They take them the way they think they mean. I wish you all the best.
2006-08-04 23:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it like this, you dont deserve to be treated like this. It was after all a minor disagreement and not talking to your gf for 4 days is a bit off from where I come from. Go and see him and try and get him to talk that's all you can do.
2006-08-04 19:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Im_a_ gummie_Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants out. Men never want to be culpable for breakups. They will find any way possible to place the blame on the woman. Chalk this up to experience and move on....
2006-08-04 19:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was looking for a way to get out, so he started a argument so he'd have an excuse to leave.That's why he turned it to a major ordeal, something's up and I think you know what it is if you listen to your heart.
2006-08-04 19:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Texas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me he is sewing his oats somewhere else. He will be back when gets done.If your smart, love or no love tell him to hit the road toad......Him making you sick over this is senseless and if hes doing it now who knows what your in for.....Be a smart girl and dump him
2006-08-04 19:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by proud to be an American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋