I wanna know does "love at first sight" really exsist! Some of my friends do believe in it and believe it exsist. But I don't! I believe that how can you "fall in love" at the sight of seeing someone. I believe that to fall in love with someone you need to get to know them and have interest in them. But what I wanna know is do you believe in "love at first sight" and have you experienced it??
2006-08-04 11:51:24 · 30 answers · asked by Shy Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. It does.
And when you least expect it, it might just happen to you too!
2006-08-12 08:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do believe, I do believe. And yes, I have experienced it and it wasn't just lust. It is still going strong. It was love at first sight for both of us. It is wonderful. I couldn't ask for a more wonderful, loving, supportive spouse. We both consider ourselves the luckiest people in the world. True love is awesome. We couldn't be happier. You do have to make sure it isn't "lust" at first sight. LOL Now, that doesn't always turn out so good. But, you can usually tell within a short period of time if it is or not. If all you can think about is having sex with a person, then it may just be lust. If you think about growing old with a person, wanting to share everything it just may be love. But if after you are with a person for a while and the sex is getting old and you want to move on, well, it was probably just the lust thing.
2006-08-12 17:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by NORTH WEST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never have experienced love at first sight so I'm going to say no. I'm going to say when you get to know someone perhaps and look into the heart of the person that fate created just for you then possibly then it's true. But logically speaking I wouldn't want to hook up with anybody I don't know unless I had no intentions of pursuing anything more than a fling or a one night stand with. If i was going to settle down with someone it'd be someone I know as well as if not better than myself.
2006-08-04 18:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by donbenecio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never believed in it until I experienced it. But you are right. To truly be in love you have to get to know someone. When I met my guy it was like I recognized him even though we'd never met and when he shook my hand it was like a lightning strike. It was like an instant, intense connection and I'm not talking about lust. It was on a whole other level and i had never experienced it before or since. We are not together anymore, but I don't regret the relationship because I learned so much and I truly believe I was meant to meet him and he is still the love of my life. That doesn't mean we were meant to be together forever, but we were meant to have what we had, which was extraordinary. And it showed me what is out there and I will never settle for less.
2006-08-11 19:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by lacopperphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have always said: "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
Love at first sight is actually infatuation,which means:a foolish,unreasoning,extravagant passion or attraction.True love is based on a long term relationship consisting of 6 months to a year or more.In short,love at first sight is only physical attraction that lasts for a short amount of time.
2006-08-12 18:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by sunrisewave360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does.. then you get glasses and find out there was something wrong with your eyes... lol...
That is called infatuation... love takes time to grow and develop.... you can get a fixation on a person at first glance... but to truly love someone you need to know that person, all of their good and bad, their hopes and fears, and be able to accept a person's flaws not just tolerate them (as for tolerating is not related to love)...
So... do I believe in "love at first sight"?.... NO!
2006-08-12 15:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by goddessofchaos50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more like lust at first sight, but hey, you've got to start somewhere, and a physical attraction is important. I'm with you "that to fall in love with someone you need to get to know them." That is more than just a casual glance.
2006-08-04 18:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by i_cycle_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does exist it really does no doubt but we find out its unrequited love and then realize just because it was love at first sight for us doesn't mean the other person was paying attention to us..and then after all of that we learn from it and then just as quick as you fell in love you realize that it takes more than a moments glance to truly fall in love and then you grown and learn and that makes you stronger and more maturer towards that
2006-08-04 19:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by lilmizzd2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think it exists. It simply means you were firstly attracted to the person physically. And later know the person deep inside. Those who say that their current partner was their love at first sight, meant that they truly and deeply fell in love with that same person only when they got to know him/her better (after being attracted physically). Hope I make sense.
2006-08-12 12:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by zira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend fell in love at first sight , then they dated, then they married, then they had children , and then last dec he died. but it does exist. i believe it does there is just something about it that make the two have this connection with out even talking they talk with the eyes the body motion and its like they even know what the other one is thinking..
2006-08-04 19:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at First Sight is true. During first sight, you may feel it will be good if you get her as your wife.
2006-08-12 14:51:29 · answer #11 · answered by sanam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋