2006-08-04 11:41:07 · 30 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, he was once ur current boyfriend, u broke up 4 a reason, but u r sure beck 2gether 4 a very stronger reason, this means that there's still some spark on, search 4 what used 2make him happy and feeling lucky he has u in his life, he's kinda paranoied coz -mayb- he still can't believe ur back 2gether, if this is not the issue and that he doesn't trust, then try 2 put urself in situations when he knows the truth and asking 4 a verification, if u can't find this situation, create it, let him know in an indirect way abt a piece of information and when then try in a decieving way 2make him ask u abt this information and give the true answer. may b i don't make 2much sense, but the main thing is put urself in a questionable situations all the time and tell the truth all the time. wish u the best of luck.
2006-08-04 11:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by strawberry 1 · 9⤊ 3⤋
Are you lying? If you are not and he persisits no relationship will ever last the long term without trust. Let him go No matter how hard it hurts the both of you. If you are lying let him go . If you need to lie Do you really love him. Remember a committment is for life. Trust has to be there.
2006-08-04 11:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by soo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf?!?!?! How can he want to get back together with you if he keeps on saying you're lying? I would tell him I wont get back together with him, and that you have moved on (even if you have not). And if you are still stuck on your ex, then i am guessing that he knows that and is trying to take advantage of you. In the end he will just break your heart again so you should stop it right here.
2006-08-04 11:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there some reason that he has not to trust you? If that's the case it takes time to rebuild trust. If he's so insecure he can't trust people , you're left with a choice 1. prove him wrong over time which is tough or 2. move on to someone who'll take you at your word.
You can flat out ask him for a chance to build trust. If he can't give it to you he can't.
2006-08-04 11:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by MEL T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't trust you, then you may be fighting for a worthless cause. I don't know about you, but if I had a kitten to call my own and at some juncture she couldn't trust me I'd just cut my losses and move on. Takes too much time to rebuild trust over again. If he can't trust you then hey his loss, do yo thang, and get on with ya bad self!
2006-08-04 11:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by donbenecio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop lying...or prove to him that you arent..and keep doing it..it takes a while to get trust back
2006-08-04 11:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you lying? Just be straight up with him. If you did whateva he is excusing you of then just admit it. And if you didnt tell him you didnt. I'm sure he still sour about the breakup. Just give it time im sure if he loves you he will come back to you.
2006-08-04 11:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by its me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try getting one of your friends to talk to him saying casually, that you want to be trusted but don't know how to prove to him that your worthy. or just do it yourself. But don't make it complicated. its simple. and though you two want to get back together, it seems like you two are young, in your teens, and though you've probably heard this before, you guys are too young to be worrying about that stuff. If he doesn't trust you after you try to have him understand than you have to let it go. no reason in MAKEING someone want to trust you.
2006-08-04 11:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by teardrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want to get back together with someone like that? I am sure you are a pretty girl find someone that treats you better....and don't waist your time on this one.
2006-08-04 11:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO, if theres no trust, the relationship wont work. he obviously doesn't trust that you are telling him the truth, so why bother if you are gonna just end up being with someone who will constantly be questioning you.
2006-08-04 11:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jeanine G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋