How long does it take for a man to fall in and out of like with a woman?
Ive known this person for quite some time. We've been enjoying each others company for a few months, out of no where, he pulls back and I havent heard from him in a week. Worst case scenerio, he isnt into me anymore. So, my question, for this scenerio to be possible, how long does it take, for a man to fall into like and out of like with a woman? (and no I havent contacted him, when I felt him pulling back, I didnt chase him into his cave or where ever he went)
2006-08-04 11:18:16 · 7 answers · asked by abc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absence makes the heart grow fonder! If he's been away, you stay away too (good work not chasing him!) He'll miss you, and ask you to do something again. Say yes. Then he'll ask again; say no... and so on. If you're not always around, he'll always leave wanting more, and that's what you want, right?
Of course, he may have stopped talking to you because he just doesn't want to be with you any more, or maybe he found a new girl. In that case, wait another week and then ask him to a movie or something. Depending on how that goes, you'll know where you stand.
2006-08-04 11:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by rd211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi KC,
I'm sorry to hear this. I couldn't guess what this guy was thinking. This is something where you would really have to talk to him about it. It might not be something that you did or said. The reasons why he pulled away might be something that is pretty ludicrous, if you got right down to it.
You could say, "Hey, I thought that we had something going on there for awhile. Was there something that I did or said that made you pull away?"
If nobody is able to talk about it, then it really wasn't a very good relationship in the first place, was it? It might be best for you to move on, and check out other guys, that would love to have a chance at getting to know you.
Have fun.
--Rick
2006-08-04 18:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can put a time on these things, they all run their course and end when they end.
He may have been commitment phobic, and afraid he was getting to close to you, and decided to leave, before he was commited.
Unfortunately, the only one who has the answer, is him, and if you arent communicating, then, you will never know his reason.
All you will have is guesswork, like I just did.
I'm sure others will come up some other answers. Are they right or wrong, only he knows.
2006-08-04 18:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop hanging around each other so much because you will end up getting bored of each others company maybe that how he is feeling right now. take a brake from trying to get in touch with him. my brother told me you always have to keep a person guessing ro else you will get tired of each other.
2006-08-04 18:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions, maybe he's just busy, ask him the next time you meet. Also, I would contact the person, to me that isn't being desperate but rather going for what you want.
2006-08-04 18:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must have found somebody else, so time to move on, and by the way, what is fall in like ?
2006-08-04 18:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he bang you?? if so he has most likely used you for a shag and now he dont wanna know you. its what blokes do love.
2006-08-04 18:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by qcumber man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋