please help me?

Question

i dont like myself ,i always blame myself,i did wrong all my life

Answer 1

This really isn't a question so there really is no answere. However, I really don't know the situation, but I can tell you that you need to turn to God and ask him to help you in your journeys. He will help. He always does. You have to be patient and listen to what he is trying to tell you. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Oh, don't feel bad about urself. First, who told you that you do all wrong? Whoever said that, (even if it's your family) are jack-@$$es . I can understand that, I used to not like myself either, but when I start thinking about the things I love, and the things I know I'm good at, I feel good about myself. I think you just need a hug and something sweet. Go out and treat yourself to your fav. dessert. You will feel better, you gotta boost your self esteem a little bit. You gotta believe your special, (think about it in your head alot) then, you'll develop an appreciation for yourself. Focus on you more often, make yourself like you more, don't worry about what other people think, they're just jealous insecure people. It's more important for you to be happy with yourself, other people don't count, YOU. Shut off other peoples' negativities towards you. Remember that and go get your treat, have a good day!

Answer 3

Why don't you like yourself? What did you do that you blame yourself? Who told you that you have done wrong all of your life?


Your worst enemy is yourself. You need to seek counseling to properly deal with your issues.

Prior to seeking counseling you may want to do some investigative work on your own. Make a list of all your pro's and con's of yourself. Then make a list of all your accomplisments and feel good about them. Then make a list of all the people and situations that make you feel happy and then make a list of all the people and situations that make you sad. When you look at the list of people and situations that make you sad, ask yourself if there is anything that you could have done differently. If there isn't anything, then learn to let go of that situation. One thing that I have learned recently is that you can't change anyone's feelings or opinions or actions, the only one's you can change are yours.

Take these lists with you when you seek counseling and talk to your counselor about these and what you are dealing with in your life right now. Talking to a perfect stranger can be more beneficial than you could ever imagine!

Good luck and I hope you feel better soon!

Answer 4

Sit down and think of all your positive points and what you have achieved in life. You DO have these points; just sit down quietly and think for a while in quiet surroundings and think of those points.

If you do this properly, you will find something that will convince you that you are a good person.

I agree from the other member that you did write much and that If nothing from the above helps, go and see a councellor.

Good luck!

Answer 5

you sound very depressed. Is a shrink an option for you? Look in your yellow pages in your phone book, does the community where you live have a mental health clinic? Call them. You sound like a nice person who just happens to have a hurting soul, that isnt fair but it is treatable.
Good Luck, feel better soon
Cat

Answer 6

Maybe , but only if you are serious you could check into something Called E.F.T. aka emotional freedom techniques.

IF you are serious and really apply it it will work wonders.

Gary Craig has a free manual on his website.

www.emofree.com

The technique is very effective and works fast too.

Alex

Answer 7

Look for some help and start changing the way you think about yourself

Answer 8

You have planted hate in you. Do not nurture it. Join more postive programs and activities. Stay with positive and humorous friends.

Answer 9

You didn't say much about why you don't like yourself, but I think it's time you focus on the good stuff

Answer 10

See a counselor or a shrink.