See were next door nieghboors n r room r across from eachother. So one day she was taking a shower n i just wanted to give a lil glince of wat going in her shower n i saw makeing out with a guy. I couldnt belive her they both were naked in the shower. She doesnt no i saw her but now wat should i do?
2006-08-04 10:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confront her and tell her what a sl** she is and dump her.....you deserve better!
2006-08-04 10:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I've been in this situation before. There are three things that you could do. One thing you could do is see if there is a legitimate reason why she is showering with another guy (usually fails) another thing you could do is dump her on the spot (think about that a moment. If you've been together a year do you think you should simply dump her? Would you really be able to live with yourself?) And three you could give her one more chance (now there is a new one... you could give her another chance. Now you're probably thinking to yourself "Give her another chance to do the same sh!t?" but think about it, you've made it work this far and you have been giving it your all, why not let this one slide?) Now the decision is still yours all I am doing is admonishing you toward the best answers.
2006-08-04 11:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hinari Fumasu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You now know that she will do fun things in the shower so why don't you invite her over and ask if she would like to shower with you?
2006-08-04 10:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump her and move on. you should never stay with someone who is cheating on you. it isnt worth it. besides if she is cheating on you now after you have been together for so long and you are just now finding out about it then who is to say that she hasnt done it all along.
you dont want to get an STD or anything so just leave her.
2006-08-04 11:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by katie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im thinking she wasnt happy with the sexual attention you were giving her, so her being stupid, she didnt talk to you about it, she cheated. tell her you know shes cheating, and then tell her she doesnt need some other guy to satisfy her needs, she has you.
then go take a shower with her, and make it better.
2006-08-04 11:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave like any good neighbor and bf and dump the b-i-t-c-h immediately without a second thought.
2006-08-04 10:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and tell her what you saw and that you want to take a shower with as well lol
2006-08-04 11:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously was'nt happy with you or she would'nt have done that!..... & you are obviously an awesome guy so call me 555-777- haha j/k but you do seem like you are really caring & care alot for her.... if you were'nt then you would have already dumped that s*ut so.......what do u think? i think you deserve better just let her go!!!!!!
2006-08-04 11:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it. dump her after. if she did it once and you stay with her, she's bound to do it again because she got away with it the first time.
2006-08-04 10:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Blop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is doing it behind your back than move on dude... I dun think she was your gf in the first place
2006-08-04 10:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by SPYL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her, u deserve better, although that was a bit wrong what u did, dont do it again
2006-08-04 10:59:27 · answer #11 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋