I recently found out that for almost a year my bf has been spending $1,500 per month at the strip club. He makes about $8,000 per month now. We have 1 child(1 yr old) together. I quit my $35 an hour job to stay home with the baby like he wanted. He was giving me $5 a week to stay at home and cook, clean, wash, dry, fold, iron, all the chores, plus take care of our son, even on his days off all by myself. And our bills weren't even getting paid, and our bills are only about $2,000 a month total. When I found out how much he was spending at the titty bar I demanded more money. Now he's giving me $600 dollars a month for my lost wages and effort. Am I wrong for asking for and accepting this? I look at it this way; now the strippers can get the $5 a week.
2006-08-04 10:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would divorce him if I were you...That's just wrong. Seems like he values the strippers more than his wife and kids at home. Thats really messed up. It wouldn't say that ir's hard to be an at home mother. But you still need money. I'd say about $300/week. to Buy food and other neccesities.
Your husband is a selfish being just by the way you talk about him. But you don't see anything in his wrong doing but not giving you enough for your allowance. Just leave him. He doesn't do sh!T at home you do. He he pays the bills and brings the bread home. But still he needs to cater to you too. You aren;t wrong for asking him for more money. YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN HAVE TO ASK!your his wife! what is $5 dollars going to get you? Some toilet paper?
it's seems like he could care less about you... as long as you have his plate ready for diner it's all good. but. $5 is nothing. How can you put up with that? seirously!!! You should have just kept your job. Try getting it back. And get a baby sitter you don't need all that. Or go by his rules. Yeah i know he's your husband but you've got a mind of your own. Just because that's what he wants and says doesn't mean you dont have the right to make decisions and speak up about it!
2006-08-04 10:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I think it ok to ask if he can spend $1500 in the titty bar he can spend $600.00 on you hey better yet ask him to buy you a stripping pole an and stripping instructor and have him pay you the $1500 for stripping, $600.00 for loss wages,$35.00 hour for being a house wife an mom and whatever the $5.00 a week thing was, also he can pay the instructor a decent amount for teaching you how to strip. He'll get off from watching then you too can hav fun in the sack when the instructor leaves.
Ill take the job lol. At least he is paying you allowance thats nice now you just have to take the stripping job from the strippers just my opinion good luck call me if you are in vegas to be a guest on my show to tell me how it goes and you can always hire me to teach you how to strip You go on with your bad self!
2006-08-04 10:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy Tease-Sex With Sassy Radio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is spending $1,500 a month at the club and is giving you $600. your doing your math wrong dear because he still has $600 left for the girlie club why didn't you ask for the full fifteen hundred and then the girls club would get the five dollars. And no you are not wrong to ask for it, I think he should hire you to pay his bills as well before he puts you both into bankruptcy.k
2006-08-04 10:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you only getting $5 a week? That's ridiculous. I think that you should demand that he stop spending all that money at the strip club. Imagine how much you could be saving if he put that much into a savings account every month.
2006-08-04 10:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like your man is a pervert. I would make him choose. You are the titty bar.
If giving money to women he doesn't know is more of a priority than making his wife happy, you need to kick his @ss out the door.
2006-08-04 10:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong im mean you are his girlfriend he shouldnt be spending that much money in a club anywasy and he got a child at home and he needs clothes and things no you are not wrong and plus why will he be going to a club when he got you and a child home
2006-08-04 10:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by princess tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would be my ex-bf and I would take him to court you are entitled to 33% of his gross income at least that is the way it is in IL.SO 33% of $8000is$3640cash plus health care and childcare-depends if you want to stay with this guy or not
2006-08-04 10:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if he is a real man and is staying there he shouldnt have any problem pitching in tell her to talk to him about it and if he doesnt like to pitch in at the very least then find someone else who is willing to help out
2016-03-26 23:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you did wrong was quit your $35 hour job so he could support you.
2006-08-04 10:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you're question was way to long! And you must leave this looser soon, he will never change.
2006-08-04 10:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by david r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋