my boyfrend and i broke up but we are still having sex, now this new boy came along but i still love my ex boy

Question

this new boy is love sprung and i love him back also who must i choose?

Answer 1

here it is a tuff time to take a decision ,but if you can look at it in a different way,see you said that you broke up and you are still having sex with your ex-boy friend, unless you like each other why would ou like to hve it woth him,think of the reason why you broke up, if this is b'coz of some silly reason or reasons which when looked at from a different angle turned out to be big,so if you think that the reason is silly and you can mend it , i think your ex-bfrnd is not your ex but forever boyfrnd,it is only that he might also look things different and you need to make him understand ,after ll adjusting ourself and sacrificing someties adds escence to the love, think for yourself, why do you want to uild up a new relation about which you are still confused instead of mending the old best prson ,only thing you might need to do is to make him realise the same and he should never leave you ,all the best

Answer 2

If you're having sex with a former boyfriend that you no longer love, then you're cheapening the entire meaningfulness of sex. Intercourse should be part of a larger intimacy between you and someone you love, not a disconnected act that represents nothing more than a desire to be pleasured. Rats in a laboratory will repeat a meaningless act over and over and over just because it brings a few moments of pleasure - last I heard humans are supposed to be capable of a little bit more selectivity, common sense, and intelligent thought.

Save the sex for someone you love. Tell your ex-boyfriend it's time to find another on-demand sex partner.

Answer 3

the new boy i think personally he seems like a nice guy ur ex might not still love u and he may end up hurting but u have a good on the other hand whos there if u need him not just for sex .

Answer 4

You should stop having sex with your ex. Also start going out with this 'new boy' and get to know him and everything. Just see if he is really someone you enjoy being with and stuff.

Things can go pretty far if you give this new boy a chance. Im serious, stop having sex with your ex, now. You dont have to do what i am telling you, but i recommend stopping.

-Edward

Answer 5

You wrote:
"my boyfrend and i broke up but we are still having sex, "
ergo; You didn't breakup!
Then you added:
"this new boy is love sprung and i love him back also who must i choose?"
ergo; You are shallow and only thinking about yourself.
Grow up!

Answer 6

First stop having sex with the ex. Sex confuses things and when you break up and still have sex it makes the break up less real and permanent. Second, Give this new guy a shot because the ex and you are already over so there is no reason to not give the new guy a shot. But please, please, please stop having sex with the ex if you have broken up because you will always be confused and will never be able to move on.

Answer 7

How old are you and how long do you think you want to be "free". You choose with who you love no matter what. How do you know its love???? Don't worry, you will know. Imagine yourself with grandkids and whoever it is you are still with.

Better yet, forget the choices all together, have sex with both, be careful, use a condom and don't worry about it. When you are growing up in adulthood, don't worry about being called "easy". Women have the right to have as many partners as they please, just as men do. So live it up babe!!!!

Answer 8

You must decide other wise you ll lose the camel and the rope.

If u broke up with your ex, is for a reason so dont go back with him.
Choose the new guy

Answer 9

I have been in that situation. Most men when they are still having sex with their ex are just doing it for the sex. They aren't still in love. It looks like you are in love or lust with someone that just wants your sex until he finds something new and better. Go with the new guy and save yourself some heartache.

Answer 10

2 is better. Just keep both and pray they don't find out about eachother. You're not in a committed relationship with your ex anymore, so he doesn't have a right to tell you who you can see so you're technically single. Tell the other boy you like him and he'll understand what you mean. You're not committed, go for it girl!