I am so tired of comments from people and emails not only calling me names but calling my children names. Are people really immature enough to go after innocent children? Do they have nothing better in life? Or is their life really that pathetic?
All my kids WERE planned and are, believe it or not, all by my husband, AND I had them all AFTER we got married... Is that really that so rare these days that people have to comment about it??? My husband works full time, provides VERY well for us, and I am able to be a stay at home mom because of it until my youngest starts school. Is that so rare today that people have to be childish enough to call my KIDS names? Does anyone else have this happen?
Normally I can just shrug it off, but I just had 4 emails and two comments from people on a question I answered... It's getting rediculous!
I am PROUD of my kids! That is why I am mom_of_4 on here!
2006-08-04 10:38:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
No that is the problem, I don't talk about them, people see my nic on here and just comment, and alot email... I answer questions and people comment
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsfaXk2_nkD6848ffkwl9Gzsy6IX?qid=20060804141504AANIfvk
2006-08-04 10:50:58 · update #1
the comments from the other answerers is a not so bad example of what I am talking about,,,
2006-08-04 10:56:01 · update #2
Two of my kids are blondies and both me and their father are brunettes (dark brunettes)..I get stupid comments all the time. I actually had blond hair when I was their age.
2006-08-04 15:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow I cannot believe the things some people say. I guess some are just too immature. I know when something is said about you that you can let it go but when it involves my children then I get angry and have to say something. It happens to me too but b/c my husband and I are a mixed couple. People here where we live automatically assume that we have welfare and that our children were unplanned and that he is a horrible father, none of which could be farther from the truth. I say hold your head high and defend your kids to the end.
2006-08-04 12:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also saw your response to that question. While I don't think the guy was right to slam you, doing a little bit of research before posting such a response might be in order as well.
There ARE tax-free weekends this week. Several states are offering retail establishments to sell w/o sales tax.
I think it's a pretty cool idea.
My honest opinion, you made a mistake and it was an uninformed opinion. But it was pretty well-known knowledge.
2006-08-04 12:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by keyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, these people are idiots. They say things just to get a rise out of you. I'm happy to hear that all of your kids were planned, are from the same man and you had them all after marriage. Honestly, if they weren't planned, were by different fathers and you weren't married, it wouldn't make one bit of difference to me. I would applaud you just for raising and loving your children no matter what the circumstances are.
You have to realize that alot of these people are close minded and think they know it all. For every one idiot that thinks this way, we should raise strong, open minded children to carry on the intelligence.
Don't let it get you down.
2006-08-04 10:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by s_sill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in this part of the country there are a lot of unwed mothers...they have 4 + kids and have them taken a way by welfare one by one. some people just figure you have 4 kids that its this way for you to. you are very rare my dear in these parts of the woods. usually the mothers are on welfare and such and have the husbands running out the back doors when welfare comes knocking on the doors. i get a stereo type .. just because i am 25 years old i should have kids...what? i just got married on the 16th of july.
if they are emailing you. take your email off of your profiles. why are they emailing you anyways.
if they are harassing you or anything of the sort. report them to yahoo.
cover your butt :)
2006-08-04 11:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by huneybuns 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get comments all the time because my son is 11 1/2 and my daughter is 7 months old. Everyone assumes they are from 2 different marriages-ignorance I guess!
2006-08-04 10:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PEople are jerks
I babysit for a women who is 29, with a five year old, and a 2 yearold, and she looks like shes 22. People always ask how it was to be a teenage mom
2006-08-04 11:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about???
And who are these emails from??? If you are talking about your children online with people you don't know maybe you should stop, doesn't sound very right or safe to me.
What kind of information are you giving that they call you names??? Maybe you should get a grip and get a job instead of playing on the computer all day.
2006-08-04 10:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Special Ethel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-28 02:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by chipman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mind them. they're just insecure because you have a better family life than what they have right now. i know how bad it feels to be called by any names but hey, who said everyone's civilized and educated? :)
2006-08-04 10:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by jedi_rei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋