without making him fell that I'm desperate nor a man eater! lol
2006-08-04 10:35:08 · 27 answers · asked by natalia k 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's the best, more natural way to invite some dude to go out on a date?
Flash him.
Or, you could just flirt non-stop with him. If he's even remotely smart, he'll pick up on your signals and ask YOU out FIRST!
I personally like when girls hit on me and/or ask me out first (yes, believe it or not, it has happened before), but then again, guys subconsciously like a challenge and they would "respect" you more if you DIDN'T go out asking guys out for dates.
If you really, really, REALLY want to make the first move, just ask him if he's ever been to so-and-so, like a particular movie, and then attack. Here's an example of how it would go...
NATALIA: Hey, wassup?
The Guy Natalia Wants To Do: 'Ey, Nat. What's good?
NATALIA: Chillin', son. Yo, you seen "Superman Returns to Kindergarten on Krypton" yet in the movie theater?
The Guy Natalia Lusts For: Nah, I haven't.
NATALIA: Me neither. Looks good, eh?
The Guy Natalia is Feenin' For: Yeah, fo' sho'!
NATALIA: Wanna go see it wit' me?
The Guy Natalia Really Likes: Yeah, let's go, boo!
NATALIA: Cool. Pick me up at 8 and be prepared to pay for not only my popcorn, soda, and Snickers, but to open any and all doors for me, change the world, and respect and treat me for being the flawless princess that I am.
See? There's nothing to it, Natalia.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-04 10:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Big D 2 · 13⤊ 8⤋
Some guys get put off when a girl is the one to call right away, especially 2 nights in a row. It is sad, but they need to feel like they have to catch you. Don't call him or text him again and see if he comes around, if not, well obviously it wasn't meant to be whether you called him first or not. You texting him first shouldn't have pushed him away that fast (unless you were texting him multiple times a day) if it did, then he just isn't really that into you and isn't ready for a relationship. Keep your head up there are a ton of guys out there!!
2016-03-26 23:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask a guy out on a date. Just be ultra flirtatious-- talk about certain movies that are out now and ones you would like to see. Guys don't like a girl who looks desperate in any way, it is a big turn off.
2006-08-04 10:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men like maneaters if we are on the same page of the meaning of a "man-eater". And Yes, I would go out with you if you just ask me or usually girls would say "ummmm... so what are you doing this weekend" pretending to just want to start a conversation but she actually wants me to ask her out.. I think.
2006-08-04 10:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation. Lead the discussion toward eating. Then toward restraunts, then toward a restraunt you agree you both like, then toward the possibility of going there soon, then (if by then he has not already asked you out) you just follow the line of the conversation to "would you like to go with." Its not forced or out of the blue. Works with movies and other activites if you dont want a restraunt date.
2006-08-04 10:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by TruthIsRelative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask... but if you're really that shy... ask him for suggestions on things u can do over the weekend to kill time because of whatever reasons like my gal friends dumped me or my family is away on holiday or you just wanna de-stress...
If he invites you along to his usual hangout... it's probably a good start & All the best
2006-08-04 10:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by SPYL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for coffee. Better than a movie, because you can actually talk, less pressure than dinner so you can both relax or escape if it's awful. Most guys seem to find a casual, but confident approach flattering, especially if you accompany it with a hopeful smile.
"Can I buy you coffee or dessert?" has been working great for me.
2006-08-04 10:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Alex G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout you just ask him he wants to go out for a drink. Or if your too young to do that ask him if he wants to go catch a movie. How would that make you sound desperate. Maybe we should work on your self esteem. Just ask him out. 123. No biggie.
2006-08-04 10:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask a guy if ur hot, a guy would love to go out with u. Some girls are too pretty that im too shy to aprroach them
2006-08-04 10:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by yuta k daivd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be casual....ask him if he fancies a drink later, or if he wants to go and see a movie. Dont be worried about sounding over the top, JUST ASK HIM! You'll never know otherwise;)
Xxjes
2006-08-04 10:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somewhere that will interest you both and then ask him if he will accompany you.
You can only try
Go for it.T
here is nothing like the direct approach.
Men appreciate it more than deviousness
Good luck
2006-08-04 10:38:49 · answer #11 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋