well this boy has attemtped to open me up but everytime he trys he stops cuz i jump...i mean i reallythink its him that he can he do what he has to do and open me up but also i respect him for stopping hwne he felt i was too scared but how can i suck up the pain or prevent myself from jumping because i cnat get to teh pleasure if i can get over teh pain
2006-08-04 10:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by lilmizzd2002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm, well are you a virgin? thats importent to know. Id say in the end, he will have to go slow and you will have to endure it..and after a while your vagina well get accustumed to it and you will start to feel pleasure. But hey i give you major props for respecting him, and seems like you got a nice guy cause hes respecting you and the pain your in. :) just keep trying. If you want him to just go for it and get it over with...tell him...communication be4 and during sex is the most importent
2006-08-04 10:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bite The Pillow
2006-08-04 17:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its suppose to hurt the first couple of times but if it continue to hurt go to the store and buy lubricate it makes it easier for him to enter into you without it being dry or sore.
2006-08-04 17:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by babygirlhollaataplaya2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to the store and get some KY and maybe have hime kiss you and pay attention to you everywhere else for a while. Really have him Pay attention to you and then it may be a little easier to get you to lossen up a bit.
2006-08-04 17:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him give you oral until you oragsm first.
It'll help when he tries penetration.
Also, try it with you on top. This way you can control how far it goes in.
Try to relax and have fun with it.
Take a shower with him as foreplay.
2006-08-04 17:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him stick it in and scream if u have too but tell him go slow so u can get use to the feeling and stuff and eventually u goes will be going fast and u would be likeing it
2006-08-04 17:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi huni. I think you just need to relax a little bit more and it wouldnt hurt as much.
2006-08-04 17:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by blushing_bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just hvae to suck it up and tell him to keep going after awhile the pain will stop
2006-08-04 17:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pain is pleasuer,but let him finger u first so u ger wet,or use sm baby oil or lubricant on the condom so it slides in more easily
2006-08-04 17:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u r too young for it and get in trouble if u continue trying
2006-08-04 17:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋