It's really hard to find good people anymore. I am just wondering if many other women have this same problem. I mean you go out to a bar or something and you are playing the cat and mouse game. Is there any way that men can just step up to the plate and ask a girl out? AND be a good one?
2006-08-04 10:26:36 · 27 answers · asked by jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 42 and I've been single for a decade. I've dated some losers and I've dated some nice men but not keepers. Until now! Trust me, you have to kiss a LOT of toads before you find a nice one :-)
2006-08-04 10:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to find a good man because all of the good men act different when women are around trying to impress but some of them don't have to act hey are just weird trust me i have been through the same problem
2006-08-04 17:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason it's hard to find a good woman... life is hard, times have changed, values suck, women have SO much baggage, etc.
You have to remember, men are basically pretty shy when it comes to women - and our egos don't like rejection at all.
Look for the quiet guy who's just taking it all in and see if he has an honest smile that carries over into his eyes - that's probably your good man.
2006-08-04 17:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tim B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most guys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they sometimes go for the apples near the ground because they are easy. The apples at the top think something is wrong with them; in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right guy to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
I read that before, and it really made me think..Hopefully the same for you?
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2006-08-04 17:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by JOANNABANANA ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one stay outta bars you won't meet a good man there. And don't look so hard let him find you, you sound like a cool girl and probably good lookin, have you're friends try to set you up or something, trust me you'll find a good one someday. My wife did.
2006-08-04 17:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by david r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always it is difficult to find good things and when it comes it will come to you in the right time and in the right place you need not worry about it . And about somebody asking you out every time you should put in some effort to get something you want . Thats all .
2006-08-04 17:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mike T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause girls have a such thing as guys being "to nice" so all those good men that would never hurt you or cheat on you, you all avoid. And also cause so many of your sex give IT up so easy, and tease and cheat and stuff, it hardens the hearts of men and makes them players and just get when they think they need (sex) btw you will never find someone at a bar or club...bad places to look.
2006-08-04 17:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See your problem is that you are looking to hard. There are good guys out there but the guys you may be getting maybe see that you are really hunting for a man, that is way they come up to you.
2006-08-04 17:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you define as a good man, I think every man considers themselves good, if they feel what they live is right. The problem is selfishness, most people do whatever satisfies them and not what is right. (thats why they cheat on their mates). Real man or truthful man are people that live for God, if someone is loyal to God then they'll be to you.
2006-08-04 17:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by roadrunner_gt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the opposite reason of why it's good to find a hard man...
2006-08-04 17:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kiowa1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋