ive been doin work experiance at my nearby stables for two weeks now im 15 almost 16 and theres this guy who is 18 almost 19 we have both been getting on really well and i really like him he has been flirting with me like mad and keeps hugging me ans kissing my head he even licked my face
today he told me he fancied me and he asked weather i fancied him i do but im worried about the age difference and i havant had a boyfriend for years so im also worrie i wont be good enough for him please help me make a rational decision
2006-08-04 10:15:55 · 17 answers · asked by joebeina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He licked your face !!!
Did he also sniff your bum and bring you a bone LOL.
Naw, seriously, do what you want, but make sure you are in control of how far hings go.
2006-08-04 10:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 15. I'm not sure where you live, but here in the United States you would be considered a minor in nearly every state. He is 3 years older than you (in an age period where three years can mean a lot) and he probably should not be acting that way towards you.
It also worries me that you say you "havant [sic] had a boyfriend in years." You're only 15! Ultimately, it's up to you on how you proceed.
Just one note of caution: His advances seem to be very aggressive. He may want more than a 15-year-old girl wants to give.
2006-08-04 17:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me age is nothing but a except when the guy is old enough to be your daddy. So I think you should give him a chance. Don't worry so much about not having a boyfriend for years cause you had to be doing something right in order for him to fancy you. He could turn out to be the one for you so you will never know unless you give him a chance. But if you feel like all he wants is sex then leave him alone.
2006-08-04 17:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Redbuddafly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him. I am sure most countries do not look well upon someone over the age of 18 dating (and probably having sex with, which is where the law usually agrees with the social belief) someone under 16, or even being 16. I think you should stay friends and leave it at that.
2006-08-04 17:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your head not your Heart.
Probably against the law as at least one of you is under age, he is probably just after sex and cant get anywhere with someone of his own age.
Just watch yourself, if you dont want to go anywhere near him and he becomes persistant then go to the Stable Owner and complain about him.
2006-08-04 17:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ross B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur almost 16 and he's almost 19,the age differnce doesnt matter its nt like he's 5 years older than u or anything. take a chance n go out with him n never downgrade urself u could be evrything he would want n more.
2006-08-04 17:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your first instinct, it is usually your best decision. If you don't feel like you should then you probably shouldn't. He seems very forward and I dont believe he is all together I mean he licked your face. Is his nose wet and how does he hide his tail. Let him know your doubts and concerns and go from there.
2006-08-04 17:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by eman1205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's after his oats young lady and he aint got ure best interests at heart... Tell him to bog off and find someone ure age..
2006-08-04 17:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby he licked your face at a stable.
Find someone your own age who doesn't suck
2006-08-04 17:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Relijun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is to old for you...his behavior says he wants a physical relationship not a emotional connection...don't waste your time and innocence.
2006-08-04 17:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋