Alright I was bored so I decided to ask this question....What do men find attractive in women? I know looks have to count somewhat, but is it also their legs, eyes, personality, etc. What is it that makes men so attractive to us women? I know every man is different but I just wanted to kow what is it that you men find attractive? Some men can fall for a girl who looks like a bombshell but come to find out she has a brain the size of a pea. Or a guy can find a girl that is average but after talking to her and getting to know her he finds her more attractive because of her personality. So what is it fellas???
2006-08-04 10:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by snugglesbunni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well as far as looks go, I like women that are shorter than I am and who have nice breasts and behind. I also like slim waists too. Long legs do not appeal to me, and I absolutely loathe smoking. Hair color does not matter to me, as long as it is the natural color of the girl's hair. A cute face is always nice. I would compromise on some of these standards to some extent, but not all of them and not to an extreme.
Personality is a complex topic, so I'll just give you an overview. Most of it is just common sense, but I will tell you anyway. While I would compromise somewhat in the area of looks, I would be much less forgiving when it comes to personality. Too many women out there are stuck on themselves, and that is a big turn off. Of course, I can not love liars in spite of their dishonesty. Any personality characteristic which compromises the trust in the relationship is very significant. Women who are kind and appreciative have good odds of capturing my attention.
2006-08-04 10:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it varies so there is no definitive answer however personally the initial attraction comes with the face (pretty) and the legs (I like long sexy legs). Boobs are not that important to me at all. After the initial attraction I look for intelligence. I want my girl to be wicked smart and that is a huge turn on. So I guess personality has more to do with it than looks but looks gets the initial ok. p.s. A lade back humerous girl is key. yea all these qualities and you have my perfect lady!
2006-08-04 17:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by scottwatras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO, looks definitely count but only at the beginning.
I am much more likely to talk with a woman I do not know if she is physically attractive. But, when I think about the women with whom I have been involved in the last 4 decades, their common traits have not been physical ones. Instead, the common threads have been intelligence, a sense of humor and lovingkindness. The color of their hair and eyes, their breast size, the width of their hips and configuration of their bums have been different and, ultimately, of only superficial importance.
2006-08-04 17:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by buffalobjf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1 looks and physique
# 2 playfulness
# 3 confidence
# 4 Intelligence
Basically, looks catch our attention and personality keeps it.
2006-08-04 17:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Yu_pimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. I always say I want a smart girl, and one who can appreciate my sense of humor, and can be pleasant and friendly to all.
2006-08-04 17:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋