2006-08-04 09:49:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you answered your own question..you all are too sensitive..i dont want to sound rude but girls like a$$holes..you see that they are the ones we get married to and the ones we seem to cant live without..i think we just like a guy like that because he wont let us run after him and he is being a chase..were doing everything right and he is still treating us like garbage. but we still chase him..its like reverse physcology..you see what im sayng? we get so use to the a$$holes in our life when we meet a nice guy we are unnatracted because we are soo use to working hard for it and a nice guys give us what we want..i dont think neccassarily nice guys "NEVER" find there soulmate..i just think "nice guys finish last"...you will be lucky will you get a good girl that is not scorend and torn and emotionally scared from the buttholes in there life. i am NOT saying go be the butthole like everyone else is doing..there should be more nice guys out there..but maybe you are just being a little too nice..give her a little bit at a time..and make her want more..once a female open her eyes and see she deserves more and see that she should be treated good she will be looking for the good guy that comes and that when shes going to find you...so you stay being the nice good guy if you are the one they are talking about..because theres enough buttholes out there that we waste our time with..so be that one in a million we are searching for..maybe you all are too shy to come out into the open and talk to us..maybe you think the prettty girl you see wouldnt want you..you need to be the confident outgoing sensitvie sweet nice guy...walk up to her and talk to her..maybe shes checking you out too and too scared to talk to you also..you never know...and if she turns you down thats her lost smile and keep moving..love will come..good luck! hope i helpd
2006-08-04 10:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they need to do more than just sit there waiting for Cupid's arrow to strike. Maybe their sensitivity makes them feel rejection more acutely and they give up too soon. And you know what? There's a ton of jerks and jerkettes out there who never find their soulmate either. Never is a long time, maybe, just maybe, the time has not yet arrived. Meanwhile, just enjoy what life has to offer while you are waiting and looking.
2006-08-04 10:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do. They find you. You don't even have to look. It will happen when you least expect it...and when you aren't focused on it...maybe even after you have given up on it...and then "poof" there they are. So just go about your life, and make sure you get yourself out there some. It won't happen on your couch in the living room.
2006-08-04 09:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason that fun, intelligent women never get a date. People like the superficial, fake people with tons of drama.
2006-08-04 09:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to imagine i turned right into a good guy because i changed into useful, gentle mannered and difficult-operating. I later discovered that my introversion made me look creepy and unfriendly, so as that my efforts and artwork were continuously overshadowed by ability of a few awkward cloud that made others uncomfortable. It wasn't till I discovered the tao of shamelessness that i realized pretend smiles and a noisy voice to imitate extroversion, coupled with some blatant selfishness to exhibit that I surely have some style of formidable personality, will do a techniques better in the route of creating me look tremendous and approachable than basically doing reliable deeds, sympathizing with others' confusion or discomfort and/or "no longer doing mean issues."
2016-11-28 02:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by tormey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do occasionally. but yes there are so many guys and girls that are never happy all thought life always ending up with the wrong person
2006-08-04 09:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are looking too hard and should just chill out for a while and date different types of people
2006-08-04 09:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they usually go for the wrong girl. they tend to be attracted to girls that are not their type to begin with.
2006-08-04 10:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by doclisab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE THEY ARE TOO SHY TO APPROACH ANYONE AND MOST WOMEN LIKE TO BE CHASED!
2006-08-04 09:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure they will if they stop looking so hard
2006-08-04 09:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋