the world is paired up in groups of two ; but i am alone?
2006-08-04 09:39:21 · 18 answers · asked by prettycoolchick38 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you're not nice. You're a push over who doesn't demand enough for herself and nobody likes a sissy.
2006-08-04 09:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that sounds like what I was saying back when I was in the dating game. I can tell you that from a guys point of view. It always seemed that the girls wanted a rebel, touble maker, or a sports star. Even though the guy would treat them like ****. Maybe you are looking for the wrong type of guy? they rebel or the trouble maker might be fun for awhile, but is that the type of person you want to be with? Some guys see a nice girls as not having sex with them until they get married and don't want anything to do with that. Ah sometimes I wish I was back in the dating game, I would show some of these snot nosed little boys a thing or two.
2006-08-04 16:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice girls dont' finish last. They usually just pick poor guys or they lack confidence and hide.
Start doing social things and be pleasant and nice. Don't be giddy or get crazy but just be pleasant to be around. Most of all just be yourself. People can tell if someone is being fake.
Also a whole relationship only occurs when two whole people come together; you shouldn't be in a relationship because you think everyone else is in one.
It will happen. Be active, be pleasant and be yourself and the right guy will come along.
2006-08-04 16:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a nice girl or a bad girl. If you don't like someone, walk away....call your friendship, relationship, etc., quits.
People who go around accusing girls/women of being good or bad usually have a problem with heir own identity. ....Please read my blog about sinners.
Former 3rd base N.Y. Giants coach Leo Durocher once said 'nice guys finish last'. The more attention you give to people who don't like you or have some problem with who you are, the more credibility you give them.
Move on with your hopes and dreams and allow all of those people who are so righteous live amongst each other.
So, relax and don't worry about being paired into any category....Enjoy your life and never allow anyone to spoil your day....F---'em.
2006-08-04 18:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When guys are young and they are all about sex nice girls who don't sleep around are the ones they stay away from. Don't feel bad because when they grow up a little and want a respectful girl to be their wife and have their children they'll want something nobody else has had. You'll find someone who is interested in you not what is under your skirt. You might feel like that now but in the end you will get your reward for being respectful of yourself and your body.
Good Luck!!
2006-08-04 16:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by KAI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still alone at age 45 too. Somedays i'm thankful, other days I'm greatful.
Best to play smarter, not harder. Most are in it for the wrong reasons and it is really hard to find genuine friendships these days when friends just use us for everything too.
Be yourself. Have your own interests and join groups that share those interests with you. There will always be people there that will start up a conversation and want to get to know you as much as you do with them too. It takes a lot of patience, understanding and faith to find the right friendships and people in life to share it all with.
There is hope. I'm the perfect example of this too.
snorkelman_37@yahoo.com
2006-08-04 16:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be any of a large number of reasons. Among them are your looks, personality, and location. Each of those except location can be broken down much further into a huge number of flaws. Alternatively, maybe you're just looking for the wrong kind of men. I've noticed that nice girls often date jerks. Anyway, good luck!
2006-08-04 16:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase nice girls usually stick tot heir moral and beleifs. The not so nice ones will do anything to get what they want and dont care who they hurt in the process.
In the long run, nice girls do come out ahead. HAng in there.
2006-08-04 16:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that is not true. It may seem that way but it is just the goals and acheivments tend to be further down the road. The reward is also greater for the longer trip.
Bad girls just have to run that short distance to trouble & problems
2006-08-04 16:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not that nice girls finish last.it is the fact that nice girls really care about the prize they want to spend the rest of your life with.considering all the pervs out there ,sometimes it is be preferable to be alone.
2006-08-04 16:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men say they want to marry a nice girl but they go nuts over a wild woman. Stay nice, don't settle you'll find him.
2006-08-04 16:44:24 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋