she acts like i'm saying i wanna be a prostitute,everything i decide on as a career she tries to discourage me,and yet she's excited when my sister wants to be a bartender,whats up with that?
2006-08-04 09:34:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just do what makes YOU happy! That's whats most important. Don't chefs make good money? Your mom should be proud that you EVEN have a plan for you life. You have my support if that's any comfort for you :o)
2006-08-04 09:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by buttercup83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why she would discourage you from wanting to be a chef? There is a lot of money and happiness to be had in doing that. If that is really what you want you want to do, then you should do it. If you don't you will always wonder "if only I had done that" GO FOR IT. Now, wheres my eggs Benedict?
2006-08-04 09:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 22:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom maybe have hightt hopes for you , she thinks you can do better all the time , but its time you told her that its your LIFE nad that you think that being a chef for instant is what you really want to do and you let her know you love love her and respect her wishes in life for you , But lether try to emagine if her dad told her what to do step by step maybe "you " wouldnt have been her doughter .... so tell her to back off and let you BE , coz its your life after all .. and i guess u will be a great chef !!! just send me the resturant address !! well ya ;) ????
2006-08-04 09:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by delayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter what she wants you to be, it is your life and should do anything that you have a passion about. Stick to what makes you happy, it is her job to do what she wants with her life, not yours now, if you are an adult, set your boundries with her and do as you wish with a career that you will be doing. If you wind up with some boring job acting like a robot, you will loose your passion for life. Live it up
2006-08-04 09:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks but keep in mind your mom will probably be paying for alot of your education and she wants to make sure that you will do something that will lead to financial stability.
believe it or not, you have a better chance of getting a job as a bartender than getting one as a chef.
2006-08-04 09:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lola P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe she feels that you can do better? Either way, that's not her decision to make. It's yours.
I love to cook too, but I decided not to pursue it as a career. I fear that once I do it for money and it becomes the means for profit, I might grow to not like it anymore.
But that's just me. Follow your heart.
2006-08-04 09:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by hyperhealer3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about that. If you really want to be a chef then you shouldnt let anything get in your way.
2006-08-04 09:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Damaris G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! If it's a dream of yours, don't give it up.
Be sure to listen to people's comments and critique on your cooking and such, but if it's just something like that, then don't take it to heart.
It's your job to follow your dreams and choose your path in life, no one else's. If it's something you really wanna do, then do it. Don't hold back.
2006-08-04 09:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Amba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that you have yet to prove yourself. Perhaps you dont finish what you start. Do what you want to do and get it DONE! Dont worry what others think, at the end you'll be living the life you choose, no one else.
2006-08-04 09:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by lopez76g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋