okay so im single and i luv this boy, right? well, i haven't seen him since i left brown middle, and while i was gone, my best friend snatches him! and my other friend said that she said she didn't care if i luv him because he dont want none of me.i was sooo mad, but i go to church usually, and i forgive easily? should i forgive her?
and then, i called the boy she stole from me, and he told me he had to go, but call him or email him so we can talk a little later cuz he really liked me, not his girlfriend. now, i said i can forgive, but she hurt me. should i hurt her back by stealing him from her like she stole him from me?
2006-08-04 09:29:42 · 20 answers · asked by colesprouselover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all your going to have a lot of boyfriends. You sound very young. This boy is liking all of the attention from everyone and is just doing what young boys do.
She didn't steal him. He voluntarily went with her. She didn't throw him down and tie him up and make him kiss her. He went with her because he wanted to. Why are you not mad at him?
Guys are going to come and go but friendships will last.
2006-08-04 09:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay 1st of all u both r looking stupid for fighting over some boy that really doesn't want either of u...
she's not ur friend cause she's now dating him, but how did she steal him?? darlin he went willingly is what u mean to say... how is this boy gonna respect u or ur friend if u and her don't respect each other?? can u imagine how much he's bragging to his friends right now that 2 so called friends r fighting over him..
don't call him, don't email him, u need to move on and find somebody that wants u and will respect u..
forgiving him and not her is stupid, that's why boys do the things they do because of decisions that girls make.. u wanna get back at somebody, then get back at him cause he knew that was ur friend and he didn't care... if he really liked u and not her he wouldn't have messed w/her now would he have..
u and ur friend r being played....
u need to forgive both of them and just keep it moving..
2006-08-04 16:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you love somebody you barelyy..know? think you just love the matter of the chase that he is giving you while you are runnning around looking stupid with your head cut off running after a guy whos back infort between all these girls..why you want to do that to yourself? its time to move on babygurl! find someone new! why do you want someone you have to chase like that thats messing with everyone else accept you? if he really wanted you hed be with you and not your friends..and looks like you need to find some new friends if they take the guys you like and talk to you like they do and treat you like you do..you need a whole new social crowd if you ask me and you're only in middle school? girl you are putting too much unneccassary drama in your life for no reason..you need to worry about your education and stop worrying about why sally is stealing bobby from you...get a new hobby or join a sport life is too short to waste your energy on guys and friends like that...
2006-08-04 16:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to lose friends over a guy. But then again, you're too young to be in love with somebody on any sort of serious level and also too young to be chasing guys.
Here's what you should really do:
Help Keep America Beautiful! Stab an EMO kid in the face today.
2006-08-04 16:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you forgive her? Certainly: you should forgive everyone. That doesn't mean you can't still be angry at them for what they've done, but don't let it affect you.
As for hurting her, I wouldn't recommend it if there was another way. Revenge is not the answer. See if the three of you can't come to some sort of agreement.
2006-08-04 16:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, forgive your friend. Love is a strong emotion, and can make someone do very weird things. Then tell her sorry, but he likes you and not her.
2006-08-04 16:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're better than her and you obviously need to find REAL friends. And you don't need 2be playin' games w/ these girls, forget them.And I kno it's hard, but move on you've got bettr things 2 live 4. Jesus loves you.
2006-08-04 16:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try getting advice from boys is really bad specially when you are talking to the one who are your crush friends. Maybe try getting from friends, families and other but NOT boys
2006-08-04 16:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's just a matter of getting her back for taking him in the first place then you shouldn't do but if you guys really want to be together then go for it
2006-08-04 16:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt any bodys feelings f--k them sit back and watch the karma baby
2006-08-04 16:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by normalstudboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋