2006-08-04 09:05:05 · 30 answers · asked by lizzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get them to love each other and realize that they are lucky to have eachother.how old are they if they are young like 4 or a lil older get them to play w/ each other.
2006-08-04 09:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well sometimes brothers and sisters like to argue which tend to let people think they actually hate each other's guts when they don't.
If their fights are more serious or even physical i think you should either:
1. ask them why they fight all the time. You can ask them individually or at the same time just to know really what's the matter with them. don't judge them. listen to what they have to say. then you can act.
2. show them (or remind them?) how much you enjoy the good times whenever you have one of those moments with each other or with the family. and that it's not bad to sometimes be in each other's good company.
3. tell your parents about it (so they can do something about it if they haven't yet), or others in authority like the police or other help line number you can call for professional help.
If their fights are bothering you, you should inform them about it. maybe they'll think twice about doing it more often in front of you or something.
2006-08-04 16:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Iya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I had the same problem with my family and now I dont even talk to them, things got so bad that I am still trying to deal with it. Tell them that you are all family and suppose to be there for each other and nothing should get in between that. Try and stop it before it gets any worse, telling your parents wont help. Find out whats bothering them, get them to talk about it before it gets even worse. Figuring out what the problem is is a start. As hard as it is for me I do think talking about it is the best thing rather then keeping it inside. They may be unhappy about something else and just taking it out on each other.
2006-08-04 16:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by mr2girl02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is, let them do what they want as it is your parents' duty to figure out /stop whats going on. If you really hate seening this all, try watching couple of dozen of UFC, WWF videos that will help you controling/enjoying yourself while the fight is going on. OR while this is going on jump into the fight and start blaming both of them, they will stop fighting and start beating you up/ that can make them close friends too. Cheers.
2006-08-04 16:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by ▒GO FLAMЄS▒ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, Don't get in the middle of it and never take sizes....
I have a younger brother and we fought all the time, I think the last fight-fight we has we were about 17 yrs-old and 16 years-old I was 17 yrs-old and he of course was 16 yrs-old.
and it is just one of those things that happen in life, I promise the older they get the less it will happen and then by the time they become adults they will be very close, it's just part of life and growing up sweetie, you'll be okay and so will they.
2006-08-04 16:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Reddbone*Wifey68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with the both of them and have them talk. Ask them whats the problem and try to fix it. Tell them how you feel about the whole situation and how it bothers you. Just talk it out. They should feel better once stuff is off their chest.
~Rickeisha
2006-08-04 16:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you must know why do the fight then try to solve it for example if they are fight bcoz of a doll you must tell each of them to share there thing togather and it's impossible they fight without any reason sooo the best think to do is know why they are fighting and try to let them sit with each other to let them make a relationship between each other and try to talk to them and tell them there is no good reason to fight :) bye hope you have some useful for my answer
2006-08-04 16:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to present a benefit to them to stop. that is the only language they understand. if the fear of your parents does not do the trick, just make them want to not fight because fighting is for babies, or try to show them how they are making themselves look foolish, or find some reward for not fighting that you can give them.
2006-08-04 16:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the "peacemaker", when they fight, tell them both to calm down and help them work through their problems. if this doesn't work, try finding a quiet place to go when they fight, so you can get away from all the negativity.
2006-08-04 16:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by adoss138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them some where romantic and talk to them or friday have a brother sister day and maybe they'll get along
2006-08-04 16:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mz.SouljaGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're brother and sister thats never going to change...just make sure they respect each other and listen to one another and why he or she is getting upset and try and understand where they're coming from. If not theres always counseling.
2006-08-04 16:09:51 · answer #11 · answered by ~*Caro*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋