Having sex with female on the first date? can you see your self with her like a girl friend or would you think its kinda slutty??
2006-08-04 09:04:12 · 28 answers · asked by chiva100% 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience, it simply depends on the guy. If your intention is to have a serious relationship, don't bed him. Great sex can make you look past his a s s holiness.
2006-08-04 09:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit slutty; I would think of her more as a good time and not as someone to date. If someone will sleep with someone on the first date it would be awful dumb of me to think it had never happened.
Women are way too loose these days for my taste. I want a women that hasn't had a lot of hands on her.
2006-08-04 09:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in today's world its not as bad as it used to be, but I would feel like a straight hooker, if I have up the coochie on the 1st date remember what Monica said "I don't get down on the 1st night", she know what she is talking about. Now some guys wanna test the product but I think 1st date not good for sex. You don't even really know that person. Sex is supposed to be something special, Tell me do you give special stuff to strangers, that u just meet? Or do you wait until you know that person a little better?
2006-08-04 09:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Decizion J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be his girlfriend, you have to make the initial dates interesting to him. That doesn't mean sex- that means suspense. Give him something to work for. Also, men don't like to think that their girlfriends are easy. Sleeping with someone on the first date is easy. Men like to f*ck wild, free-spirited sex-fiends, but the girl they take home is the one who initially reminds them of their mom/sis/- someone who has earned their respect. The first dates are about proving you're worth his time and commitment, and engaging his mind- making him curious to know more. You can always blow his mind in bed later.
2006-08-04 09:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by landed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what... If a girl knows what she wants I see no reason no to have sex on the first date... I know it's not "right" but this is an age where women CAN be free to do this....
Now, if the guy dosen't know her, I can see how this could turn into a one night stand situation... where the guy won't respect teh girl... but if they were friends before hand, and went on a date and this happened... then you know what... More power to them...
Truthfully, I find it sexy when a girl knows what she wants enugh to do this...
2006-08-04 09:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would seem easy and trashy. Sex is a personal experience you share with someone you love. You cant for sure fall in love on the first date. Wait, to be sure the guy isn't with you just for the sex. If you sleep around on the first date,m your reputation may proceed you.
2006-08-04 09:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Alisa Lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the date...if it was a hot and steamy date and that seemed to be the only interest...then kinda slutty
if it was a very good date and I found myself extremely attracted to her and her me in everyway possible...then I can see a relationship....but in this case...as much as I and/or she might want to it would be worth waiting for so as to not have that slutty image and because sex early on is USUALLY a sign that it will not last...again USUALLY...not always
2006-08-04 09:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by RomanGOD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While we men all love those girls that put out on the first date, they aren't the type you take home to meet the parents.
If you want to be a sl*t, then by all means have fun, just make sure you use protection.
However, if you want to be a girlfriend or wife, hold back on giving out free samples.
2006-08-04 09:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude it all really matters on the situation. Just because a girl does it on the first date doesn't mean she's a slut. I don't believe sex has a time factor.
2006-08-04 09:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bogie Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I couldn't see myself with her. That is pretty slutty, second only to having sex with a complete stranger or something.
2006-08-04 09:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋