My friends do not think its cool. I don't want to lose my friends or her either. Is it okay to just see her at night,that way no one will see her?
2006-08-04 09:04:12 · 21 answers · asked by Moe Ron Dooshrod and Noodles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's just not right. it shouldn't matter to ur friends that ur girl is black.
2006-08-04 09:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~S~T~A~R~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you can not just see her at night, so no one will see her. If your friends don't think it's cool, then perhaps you should find a white girlfriend of whom they will approve, since it sounds as though you need their approval in the matter of your date. If you are going to have a black girlfriend then you have to see her all of the time & be prepared to put up with other peoples' attitudes, not just those of your friends. It's a fact - most people still are not comfortable with mixed-race relationships. It's up to you -
2006-08-08 08:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you aren't ready for an interracial relationship. Why would you date someone that you only want to see at night? Do you know how stupid you sound? Since you care more for your friends that this young woman, you should be with them and leave her alone. Do this girl a favor and yourself, get a white girl.
2006-08-04 16:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by krispykreme335 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this girl treats you good then who cares what your friends think, obviously they are not your true friends, because if they were they would be happy that you were happy. You could miss out on a great girl just because your friends said "it wasn't cool", I'd tell them to get a life.
2006-08-04 16:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bella xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you also can not live your life for them either...you should not love someone or be with someone for their color..if they do not like it..and are even thinking about not being your friend then they are not true frinds at all..you do not need people like that in your life..
and seeing her at night so no one else sees...is disrespectful toward her..that is not right of her...if you are so worried about what your friends think then you need to let her go..cause that just means you are like your friends
2006-08-04 16:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Daddys Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it don't matter ,don't study your friends your friends are jealous.and plz stop seeing her at night alone see her in the day too if she find out why u see her only at night u going to be in big trouble
2006-08-04 16:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you hear the story of Miriam in the Bible. Miriam was Moses' sister who hated that Moses married a white woman. So God struck her with leprosy,she was so white she hated white.
Tell your friends this story from the bible.
2006-08-04 16:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by tiger_9885 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg just beasue ur white and shes black its ok who cares and if ur friends make fun of u about it then tere not ur real firends u need new friends
2006-08-04 16:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey thats not the way to live your life your friends dont have to like her you are the one going out with her you cant live your life by their standards.if they feel that way they are really not your friends sounds like they are trying to run your life for you
2006-08-04 16:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need new friends tell them to FU*K off!! Its none of their business. If you really care about her then it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks!
2006-08-04 16:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by hunniebun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not being funny
if this is true, I would not care what people think, however I think you tried to make a joke which was pretty poor in taste on your part
2006-08-04 19:04:54 · answer #11 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋