and we see one another on weekends it is a 4hr drive. know he wants to change bases to be with me what do i do i love him but i am one that cant be around someone for to long i get bord. what do i do ????????
2006-08-04 08:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by tessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say you go for it! There are ways to keep relationships interesting. Take a chance, otherwise you'll always be thinking....would it have worked......could he have been the ONE......
2006-08-04 09:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by anne_advice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should try and be honest with this man. If he has long term plans and would like to settle down with you and your obviously not ready for this let him know. I also have a long distance relationship with my fiance and we see each other each weekend. But if I thought for a minute or she informed me that she was getting bored with me I think I'm smart enought to realize that this wouldn't be the type of relationship I want and/or need. Perhaps you should take a good look inside yourself and see if you can do anything that may change your perspective on the situation. Boredom can last a lot longer than lonliness, which is what you may end up being if you two are not on the same path. Have a mature honest conversation with your partner and exchange ideas of what might help.
2006-08-04 09:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way, I get bored easy. If you think that him living closer to you will ruin the relationship, I would be honest with him and tell him. It would be a shame if he moved all the way out to you, expecting something you don't want. Better to chance hurting him now while he is 4 hours away than waiting until he spends all the time and money moving.
2006-08-04 09:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well follow your heart ask him if he changes bases and it doesn't work out then what? Or maybe he is changin bases for more than just you maybe its for the good of himself as well think about it cause thats a big step
2006-08-04 09:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by jadyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him so much why do u wanna dump him'??????????????? trust me everything will work out when theirs a true love between u and him have a great time with him u cant always find the right guy to go out with
2006-08-04 09:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things you like about this person and keep reminding yourself that this is why you like that person. Don't give in so easily. And tell him find ways to keep you fired up. Find ways to spark something special up.
2006-08-04 09:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by numba1armywife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with all of his friends! Let them run a train on you. That will spice things up a bit!
2006-08-04 09:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you really love him and if you do everything will work out.
2006-08-04 09:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont be with him ...
I think you answered your own question miss
2006-08-04 09:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by LMAO@U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋