I have found myself in a position where I am forced to make a decision between 2 women.
The Heart: I am head over heels in love with girl A, she's cute, funny warm and loving, the problem is that there are elements in life that are somewhat important to me that we just do not share. We have been involved for about 2 yrs
The Head: Girl B shares all of those elements with me, and then some -- we have so much in common that it's not even funny She has a killer body and is in the fitness industry at the director level. I have known her for less than a year.
Both claim to worship the ground that I walk on and there has been no cheating. I want to resolve this before there is.
SO, would you pick A, B or C; RUN FORREST, RUN?
2006-08-04 08:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Ralph Johnson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow the heart baby, the heart ! If you've been together 2 yrs there's something keeping you together! you'll get things straightened out! Compromise! Let go of "b" , She's gonna get old and fat and have kids someday and you'll be old and fat and grey wondering , why oh why did I ever let "a" go! The heart doesn't lie! good Luck ! do it soon cause if "a" finds out about "b" then your gonna need plan "c"! LOL
2006-08-04 09:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by noditz57 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say involved, does that mean an exclusive relationship where neither party goes out with anyone else? Also, how jealous is lady A?. Would she be hurt or angry if she found that you had another lady as just a friend?
I have many friends and wouldn't be interested in anyone who told me I was not allowed to have other women for friends.
So, that greatly influences my answer. I'd just let it ride and not make a decision until my head and heart came to some agreement.
If you are too tempted by lady B to maintain that type of relationship then you must question your own statement that you are "head over heels in love with girl A". Almost nobody can be everything in one package. That is why people have other friendly relationships.
2006-08-04 16:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Wascal Wabbit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there are some serious incompatibility issues, I would stick with girl A because I would not want to fix something that is not broken. Girl B sounds OK too, but you don't know if things will work as with girl A before you actually break up with girl A. The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence, or so people say. I don't know exactly what you do/don't have in common with girl A that you don't have in common with girl B, or how important that is to you, so my advice to you is that you should take the path of least resistance. You will just have to decide for yourself. Just keep in mind that if you break up with girl A she will probably never feel quite right if you go back to her. There's no turning back. Good luck!
2006-08-04 16:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are obviously not so head over heels for girl A if you have time to get to know and daydream about girl B so that should say something. Only you can decide which girl you want to be with. Love is something that is essential in a relationship. Pick the girl you think you could love for the rest of your life.
2006-08-04 16:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have loved it if the decision was as simple as pick A or B. I can't tell you which one to choose!
However, i can tell you this one thing...follow your heart always...it will never lead you to the wrong way...and even if it does, it is better than living the rest of your life regretting the fact that you didn't follow it!
Consider which woman makes your heart tremble, makes you feel the need to give her everything unconditionally, and pick that woman.
I am sure your heart will lead you to the right woman. Good luck!
2006-08-04 16:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Need Help! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. I can't tell you which one to pick and neither can anyone else. But I can tell you, always follow your heart. I let a guy that I loved go recently because I wanted to do what was best for my kids. He didn't have any yet, and I didn't want to hinder him. Now, he's gone and I can't stop thinking about him. Just don't get caught in the middle. ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART and you will never regret it!!
2006-08-04 15:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by angel23amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose A. If you are hopelessly in love with this girl, you shouldnt really have to make this choice. The other girl, you are obviously in lust with her, however, if you were my man, i would dump you first for even considering dumping me in the first place for a bit of fun!!!!
2006-08-04 15:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by carolina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for a threesome ... if that doesn't happen .. then find 2 girls that will ... haha ... j/k ... !
I say they both sound OK ... but the second one sounds like she's on your level a little bit more and has more in common with you then the first girl.
2006-08-04 15:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would go with my heart. You can't share everything with someone.
2006-08-04 15:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart because your head is full of lies
2006-08-04 15:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by broadway_boy7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋