When I was younger men who I found attractive scared me?

Question

and I had a difficult time talking to them. Now that I'm older I am very comfortable around younger attractive men because I just assume they wouldn't be interested in someone my age and then it turns out they find me attractive because I'm so comfortable with them. I sure wish I'd known that just being comforable and relaxed would make me attractive. Guys, do find that you're put off by attractive women if they're tense and scared?

Answer 1

Being comfortable is a sign of confidence and confidence without arrogance is attractive.