Pregnancy Scare - need some advice?

Question

Hi Guys,

I know you all are sick of these questions but I just need some help. I had sex with my boyfriend 2 days after my period ended. We used a condom and he said there were no problems with it. However he could have been mistaken?

However I'm feeling worried as my breasts feel bigger and my stomach feels more bloated.However this could be due to my period which is due in 2 weeks? Also I suffer anxiety/IBS which could be attributed to the slight stomach cramps I am experiencing.

I have read up about ovulation and I have 28 day cycles, so I wouldn't have been ovulating, but you can pregnant at any time in your cycle?

Sorry for all the hassle.

Regards

I suffer from anxiety/panic attacks which is attributed to loosing my father therefore I know I can often wind my self up

Therefore I have been making it worse by thinking what if the condom did split, or what if sperm spilt etc. My last period ended 24th July and I had sex on the 26th July. Therefore my period is due around the 15th August - I shall do the tests then.

I can't take the pill due to medical reasons however, I will start to do some research on other forms.

I'd like to say thanks for all your help guys.

Answer 1

No you have about 10 days which you can get pregnant because a man's sperm can live about 7 days and the ovulation period is about 3 days so there you have it. But you need to relax and stop being stressed out that could be why you are experiencing those symptoms. But to be sure get a test and go to the doctor.

Answer 2

you can get pregnant at any time, but it is unlikely. If your periods are pretty regular, then your ovulation time should be as well. There are a few things to think about. Did the condom have spermicide? Was it latex or lamb skin? Latex condoms lubricated with spermicide are obviously the best.
I think the symptoms you are experiencing are a combination of being about to start your period and being scared to death about being pregnant.
Try to calm down. If you really need to, go to your local health department or your gynecologist and get a morning after pill.

Answer 3

It sounds unlikely, but I would try to stay calm, wait until your period is due and then see what happens. You have been careful and responsible, you would be very unlucky to get caught out, but it does happen. I think you can get pregnancy tests now that you can use the first day your period is due, so if you are worried, go and get advice from your pharmacist about the earliest you can take a test. Good luck.

Answer 4

If you are ever unsure when you do it always get a morning after pill and before you need it do test runs and plans for doing it.


Also always use two methods ie pill and condom.... better still injection and condom.

In your case I fear its too late and time for tests...


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Answer 5

I would take a test like I was when I had my daughter when I was 15, I was worried then because I only started when I was 14 so don't worry.

I've had loads of kids so I am really an expert

Answer 6

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Answer 7

You should start by not wanting to get pregnant, just have sex everyday or every other day and don't think about getting pregnant, just have fun with your partner. Get more useful information and guides to get pregnant here https://tr.im/g4kPB
after sex-put a pillow under your butt or prop your feet up on the wall so your pelvis is tilted
eat healthy
back off caffiene
workout, even if its just a 20 minute walk a day, be active.

Answer 8

Hi, I dated a obgyn for a long time, and according to him you can only get pregnant 10 to 14 days after your period.

Answer 9

yes some people are so fertile that they can get pregnant at any time. take a test if you're worried but i doubt you'd have symptoms so soon and worrying can stop your period!

Answer 10

WAIT THE 2 WEEKS THEN TAKE A TEST THE SYMPTOMS YOU ARE HAVING SOUND LIKE A WARNING SIGN FOR YOUR PERIOD BUT EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT