My boyfriend and i have broke up b4 and he promised he wouldnt ever hurt me again...but he still does i dont understand and i really love him and want to be with him.
2006-08-04 08:43:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never believe a promise from anyone who says they'll never hurt you. At some point, every person you know is going to hurt you in one way or another.
You need to decide if you can live with the kind of pain he causes you. Chances are that he knows the things he's doing are hurting you, and he's doing them anyway, because humans are selfish. If you still want to be with him, knowing that he will continually choose his own desires over yours, then you just have to accept your painful lot in life.
2006-08-04 08:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all the girls want to date the "pretty boys" who are only intresting in themself and making someone jealous.Instead dating guys who worship the ground you walk on you date the pretty boys who are either trying to make someone jealous or just using you.
I have seen this phenomenon happen to many times, A pretty girl and a popular pretty boy who breaks her heart. It is because girl are always chasing after the type of guys who break their heart rather than the ones who have liked since the first grade
Another example, Spiderman Mary Jane still chased after that stupid pretty boy even though Spiderman liked her since they were young children(this is why girls are doomed to never be happen or "find true love as you call it)
Just about all the girls want the bad boys who in turn hurt them and then they get mad at all guys!!!!
In conclusion, If you have a boyfriend who is always hurting you don't get mad at all guys get mad at yourself for dating the wrong guy!!!! and please don't get mad every single male on this planet because of what one did
2006-08-04 08:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by tiger_9885 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't like you and you need to give up on him. Breaking up with you does not make him an asshole unless he deliberately did it to hurt you. I doubt that is the case, because it really sounds like he doesn't like you and you go back to him and convince him to take you back. Not sure if that's the case, but it's my guess.
2006-08-04 08:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date a guy like that, find someone else, I'm sure he will get jealous and try to get you back... But I wouldn't fall for that, once he has you again there is no way of knowing that he won't hurt you again.
2006-08-04 08:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by SarUH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey girlz can be also assholes with guyz
and for ur boyfriend dump that asshole and be with another one
and alittel thing when u pick a guy try first to know his personlaty before get together
2006-08-04 08:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by N!ckola$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think hes being an asshole on purpose. i also don't think he knows when he hurts you all the time. you should make it clear when he hurts you. the problem with us humans is communication. u both need to learn to be great communicators. especially him! hes probably very insecure about himself and about you especially! he probably feels he could lose, you so he withdraws his emotions from you periodically to protect himself if does lose you.
2006-08-04 09:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time the asshole has an internal problem, as in he is either insecure or sick in the head
2006-08-04 08:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Max C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If bomb head wont work youve lost him baby
2006-08-04 08:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not give you a good reason then forget him.
2006-08-04 08:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-04 08:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋