2006-08-04 08:42:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats wrong is how hard it is to meet 16-18 yr olds while in prison? Why don't high schools do more field trips? We could have a police line up and be like, "yes little Billy, which 35yr old would you like have molest you."
2006-08-04 08:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by noise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of reasons you could find yourself attracted to younger boys. I'm sure you could spend years and years in psychotherapy finding the root causes; but most of the time that type of attraction has to do with control and power. You should seriously think about finding someone to talk to who can help you work through this. If you act on this even once, you will be setting yourself up for a lifetime of yearning and inappropriate, illegal behaviour. You must find some type of interest or activity to fill up your life. If nothing else, volunteer at a charity, spend your time helping others. Anything, just fill up your life with good things until you can get some help and move on. This is how pedophiles are made. They start with urges and then act on it. You can change those urges by seeking help and NEVER acting on it.
It's obvious that you want to do the right thing, otherwise you would act. You could always find a grown man that looks young for his age. But whatever you do, don't give in. You are setting yourself for BIG problems if you do.
Best of luck to you. I hope that you can conquer this and move on to a happy, appropriate relationship.
2006-08-04 15:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age isn't a big deal these days what with these huge age gaps between celebrity couples, eg Tom Cruise is 44 and Katie is 27. If you find some guy who likes you then go for it. Have you tried talking to anyone about this? Perhaps its just a phase?
2006-08-04 15:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would u get a husband ur age and not look at younger boys bc that isnt wat life is all about
or u can jsut think ur 35 and ur times can up wen ur tahjt age 16 nad try to find ahubby taht to U looks likea 16- 18 yrs old
2006-08-04 15:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by jjof1812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pedophilia?
2006-08-04 15:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to seek help before you act on these feelings and thoughts. but thats jsut not normal either.
2006-08-04 15:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have a young spirit older people probably bore you
2006-08-04 15:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're perverted. See a shrink, or read a self-help book.
2006-08-04 15:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just so happens that i am attracted to women over 30... mabye we should meet up
2006-08-04 15:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey Blue Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing
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2006-08-04 15:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋