can u help me???

Question

i have a bf in a different school. we have all the same interests and want to go together. but im afraid to tell my mom cuz my bf told his mom and he got grounded. im afraid that my mom wilol make fun of me. but i really like this guy. i kno thta im only 13 but i really like him. i really want to go out to the movies and stuff with him but im afraid to ask my mom. and i get kind of nervous when im around him. please help me. please be serious though....... thanx!!!!

Answer 1

You are very young to be dating. That's probably why your guy got grounded. At 13, you shouldn't be worried about boyfriends. Why not be friends with him for a while - hang out and do things as friends. Hang out in groups of friends or have an older brother or sister take you places.

And why in the world would your mom make fun of you? Has she done that before? If so, that is cruel.

Answer 2

I'm not gone grill u on da age thing okay. Yeah he may have got grounded for telling his mom about u two, but how do u kno if ur mom will react da same way? U should just tell her dat u are 13 and is still growing, tell her dat u are old enough to start hangin out around boys and dat she shouldn't have to worry about u. she'll deny it at the beginning, but she give in sooner than u think.


*Good Luck!*

Answer 3

Well I think you should tell her. I find no harm, you guys don't go to the same school. If you are responsible and do what you are told then I find no problem with you having a boyfriend. Your mom and his mom need to meet and talk to each other about how they feel and they need to talk to you and your boyfriend, because the more they try to keep you guys apart the more you are gonna disobey them and get into trouble. And that was no reason to ground that boy. I see no problem with ya'll going out shaperoned or public. As long as ya'll are not trying to have sex it would be an okay.

Answer 4

I know how u feel I have a new bf and I like him but he is only here for the summer he lives in a whole nother state and my mom doesnt know I dont know if I shoud tell her either I am afraid to but I am 15

Answer 5

Ask the boy to come over and meet your Mom. Let your Mom talk and get to know him a bit. He can then ask if it's ok for the two of you to go out.

Any parent will appreciate an old fashioned young man, that will ask a parent for permission to take out their daughter.

Answer 6

You should tell your mom how you feel about this boy and let her know that you are serious about him. Maybe she will understand. Ask her how she knew when she found the right guy. That will let her know you are serious. Tell her that he got grounded for asking his mom and let her know that you haven't already asked because of the fear of getting in trouble.

Answer 7

It's nothing to be embarrassed about. It's only a movie, maybe dinner, think about how silly you're acting! You're 13 and lots of 13 year olds go out on dates... no biggie!

Answer 8

It OK to have a bf but not to be getting serious about spending a lots of time together

Answer 9

that happend 2 me when i was dating i was scared to tell my mom and dad i was scared what they would think and when i told them they didnt really care they were proud of me that i got a bf and that i could come to them and tell them so maybe you just need 2 tell her and she might be happy and if she is making fun of you its prob out of love not to be mean or ask what happend on her first date orfist bf ???? good luck and have fun on your date

Answer 10

OK WHAT I RECOMMEND U TO DO IS TO SIT DOWN WITH UR MOM TELL HER THAT U REALY LOVE HIM AND TELL HER HOW U FEEL TRY IT GIRL AND IF ITS A TRUE LOVE NOTHING WILL EVER BREAK U UP WITH HIM EVEN THOUGH UR MOM MIGHT GET MAD AT U OR SOMETHING