ok so my bf is coming from Germany in 2 weeks, hes a virgin, hes 6'8 and skinny. I'm 5'4 and weigh abt 180lbs. He says weight dont matter, but if that was ture than guys wouldn't always want the "barbie doll" type. We r both virgins and i have big plans 4 us. So when it all starts to happen and he starts touching me I dont wanna feel like he is thinking "ewwww." This is a serious question, so not smartasses plz.
2006-08-04 08:36:57 · 13 answers · asked by Ali G. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does he know you are 5'4" and weight 180?
if so, then maybe he's into bigger girls.
if not, then you might wind up with a broken heart.
2006-08-04 08:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by China J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's a virgin, his nerves will probably be racing a mile a minute-he'll have other thins to worry about. Most guys don't care about size when it comes to sex. The inside of a woman is the inside of a woman no matter how overweight she is. I am a heavy girl as well, and I used to be self consious about getting naked and from what angle he'd see me from, whether I'd jiggle and etc.. The bottom line is he should focus on this special event you will share together and not your size. Dont worry!!!
2006-08-04 08:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello alisha s,
As long as you've been honest with him and told him, maybe even sent him photos. Then everything is cool. Don't worry about it. There are plenty of guys that like women with a little more meat on their bones. It sounds like he really likes you.
It matters to some guys (and girls too), so you need to tell him, otherwise there will be some problems when you finally meet up. Imagine when, once you meet, he forgot to tell you something about himself?
Best of luck, and have fun.
--Rick
2006-08-04 08:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a surprisingly big population of people who like to have sex with people of a larger frame. If your really doing it for the right reasons the thought of "eeewww" should never come to mind
2006-08-04 08:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 22:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it matters... I had an experience where I had a girl I liked on the internet and then we met and she was a bit on the chunky side and it weirded me out a lot... better let him be on top or give him a lot of oral and tell him to close his eyes...
2006-08-04 08:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no weight does not matter i am 5' 11" and 145 lbs and my girl is 5' 9" and weighs 190 and we have sex like we have not done it in years so no weight does not matter.
2006-08-04 08:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by the ONE and ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wanna lie neccesarily tell you weight doesn't matter because it does. Bigger people are seen sometimes as less attractive but it all depends on other factors. But in general, yes size does matter. smaller people are easier to please in bed. while bigger people require more energy
2006-08-04 08:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by tiger_9885 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self if your guy loves you and he's ok with it then relax the first me and my guy was going to have sex i was scared to let him see my body but he loved it and i learn to be comfortable with it around him just relax and b you
and for the fisrt two people who answer your question tell them to fu*k off when you don't have anything to say don't say it at all
2006-08-04 08:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...i don't really know what you guys look like but from your description, you shouldn't be worrying about weight.. it doens't really matter, if you both really really like eachother, then weight shouldn't be an issue.
2006-08-04 08:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Black Horizon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋