Women, is this a double-standard or is there some other reason you're exempt from logic?

Question

Given an early relationship. Given....guy has a problem. He calls said woman a few times in the same evening and leaves a kind of desperate message on her voicemail (use your imagination...I don't mean a "booty-call"). The woman was in a movie when he called, but she listens to the voicemail, and leaps to several conclusions. The guy calls some more, but she won't answer.

Now, inversely, said woman has a problem...she calls many times, but the BF is in the gym. She leaves 3 desperate voicemails, leaps to a wrong conclusion, and drives to his place. A little while later the BF checks his voicemail...decides there must be a real problem, and tries to call back as he drives home. When he gets home, he gets his ears chewed off.

When we can't reach you, we're expected to just shut up and wait. "Be a man, already."

When you can't reach us, that means we're cheating. We have to always be available at your beckon call, even at 3am. We are your free, full-time shrink.

Question: WHY?

"Mister Chivalry".....I don't even understand your reply. At first I was agreeing, as you were agreeing with me.....the make-believe guy I generated in that scenario WAS a total honest, trustworthy man, and that was the point. So why did you reverse the whole double-standard and hypocrisy thing directly after agreeing with me?

"Just me" is generalizing the sh-t out of men. I hate generalizations and although my scenario was a slightly less-than-typical scenario, it is still common, and true about women. Not all guys do what this woman said, the same as not all women are trustworthy like she seems to think. I have dealt with several cheating b--ches and you women are ALMOST as bad as the guys with your track records!

Answer 1

lol....

because:

1. women thinks differently from men...
2. insecure women thinks negatively...
3. some men are not trustworthy... and we, women, call them cheaters.
4. a man gives his 24/7 attention to the woman he likes... but when they became gf-bf, the 24/7 attention will be lower by half... the older the relationship - the fewer attention they give..... the longer the relationship gets - the more they (women) are taken for granted.

Answer 2

Mr. Chivalry says, "What if it's a truly faithful man that is getting his @$$ handed to him because he didn't pick up his phone. What if he actually couldn't get to it and he had a valid reason?What if you made an assumption that was actually wrong? How can you justify the double standard then?

Men are hypocritical as well. We all are human, and we make mistakes. However, it is not right to try and justify your hypocrisy and point the finger when someone else is being hypocritical. That's double hypocrisy to me."

Mr. Chivalry has spoken.

Answer 3

Is it women's fault that men lie ? NO
Is it women's fault than men cheat ? NO
Is it women's fault that men are selfish ? NO
So why in the hell are you asking us ?
If men could turn all the NO's above into YES then women wouldn't be so damn suspicious all the time.