we both love eachother but he has to end the raltionship with the girl he's living with shold i wait for him to do so or don't wait it's not worth waiting becasue he just wants his cake and ice cream too?
2006-08-04 08:26:01 · 24 answers · asked by tatiana d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have the answer!!!!.....
if he wants you/ Loves you, there is no reason to leave the person he is with. but if that is only an excuse so you can keep the way it is then ...."don't wait it's not worth waiting because he just wants his cake and ice cream too:
2006-08-04 08:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the saying goes...once a cheater always a cheater....I too was in the same proximate that you were in...i waited a few months...and he did get out...but i still wonder sometimes if he's doing the same thing to me....I know he loves me very much, but that's saying is always in the back of your mind....we've been together for quite a while, almost 7 years...and things are going good....i got lucky, it doesn't always work that way....Hardly EVER....but you always think that at any time....it could change and he could have an affair with someone else...just like he did with his X.....I recommend to RUN and RUN fast.....find someone who is not entangled into a relationship.....start over with someone else...you will be far more happier in the end.
2006-08-04 08:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, tell him to give you a call when he ends it and moves out. Until that point, stay away from each other and you should date other people. He's a cheater and a liar right now. People usually say once a cheater, always a cheater. He could wind up doing the same to you so think about that even if he does move out and break up with her.
2006-08-04 08:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a mature adult and went into this relationship with eyes wide open, if not your still in it. ask yourself. Are you happy in the relationship? Do you enjoy being together? Does he treat you right? The thing is every body answering these questions will only tell you the negative side. Do whats right for you if he makes you happy right now then enjoy the ride, for as long as it lasts. The point is he makes you happy, for all you know he could be braking up with her right now. To be with you. Forget society and do whats right for you. Most of them DID it an, WILL do it again if the right person and situation presents itself.
2006-08-04 08:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a bad idea to get into another relationship right after you ended the previous one. I just confuses everything...... give it some time, if you really do love eachother then time wont be a problem
2006-08-04 08:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by nangel16pr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has been having his cake and ice cream to for a long time he says he love you but why hasn't he left her as yet you need to tell him make up his mind what he wants now or your gone
2006-08-04 08:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he moves out. Meanwhile look for someone else, cause you will be waiting a long time.
2006-08-04 08:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by doglover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a Tree monkey...can't let go of one limb till he has a grip on another limb. He is one of many who is scared to be alone...a person who can not be alone has a sloo of other issues. I assure you...so if you are a limb keep dating...if not date others who are more secure and confident.
Good Luck
2006-08-04 08:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by stephiestrobel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him he is using you. If he hasn't left her yet he will not leave her. If you want to confimr anything go ask the women he lives with what their relationship is. Then apologize and let him go so she can KICK his A**.
2006-08-04 08:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by ead824 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, if he cheated with you on someone else. why wont he cheat on you down the road?? you are living in denial. once a cheater always a cheater. do you really think he isnt telling the other girl, he loves her?? get a real man!!
2006-08-04 08:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋