some of them are much better looking then me and it makes me really uncomfortable what should I do?
2006-08-04 08:25:56 · 18 answers · asked by TheNiceGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very possible to recognize someone's attractive without being attracted to that person. Otherwise we'd all be in loads of trouble. So don't get too bent out of shape about how the guys look. It's normal to be a bit insecure about it. I wouldn't worry too much if you two love one another, she has good morals, is hapy in the relationship, etc. If nothing else, it can't hurt to talk to her about it. Just make sure your overall additude isn't one that seems 'accusing' or anything of the sort.
2006-08-04 08:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 11⤊ 2⤋
I'll tell u what.... Don't give a f.u.c.k! I really have no clue how long u guys r goin around. But there's a certain stage.... once after crossin u it... ur gurl wouldn't even care a damn about a guy's physique ( Untill n unless she's a horny ********* - I hope she isn't). Once u get stronger in ur relationship where u c beyond physical stuff u can relax. Cos accordin to some research.. each n every gurl thinks that her guy's d.i.c.k is the best for her. Dude.., don't get too possesive with ur gurl. That demolishes a relationship totally cos u'd end up holdin back ur gurl's freedom Watch this movie "Heavenly Pond". U'll know abt it. Always relax...., N keep thinkin that u r the best pair. U 2 may not b perfect..... but u r perfect for each other.
2006-08-04 08:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dj Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do absolutely nothing, unless you see her actually flirting with another guy. If you act like something is wrong, it will make her lose respect for you. Aside from that, you might want to better your appearance. Make sure you are well-dressed and well-groomed at all times, and maybe start working out. If you have reason not to trust her, you should drop her at the first sign of trouble and move on to better adventures. You may have to pass through a lot of girls to find one that is worthwhile, so be patient! Good luck!
2006-08-04 08:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk. Communication is the best method of solving problems between partners. Tell your partner how you feel and why you feel that way. Do not tell them you think they are cheating on you unless you truly feel that way. It is OK for a person to have friends that are the opposite sex especially if they had those friends before they met you. Even if they came after you then you should take the time to get to know that person so they can be your friend as well.
Good luck
2006-08-04 08:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Eric D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay... Don't worry about it so much. I have guy friends too, but I only see them as friends, and friends ALONE. If you really trust this girl, then you shouldn't have to worry so much.
Looks don't really matter. It's what's on the inside that matters. Treat her with dignity and respect. Show her how much you really care about her. :) By doing this, you'll make her feel special around you. I don't know this girl, and cannot promise anything, but that should make a big difference if you treat her right.
<3 Good luck, and try not to worry about this too much!
2006-08-04 08:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel bro. If you trust her that is all that matters yeah it will make you uneasy but trust goes along way me and my girl have together for a year and nine months. i first found out about a week in the relationship and i was freaking. but in time she know how uneasy it makes you and little by little she stop only cause she wants to be with you. if that doesn't work and she talks to mre guys and less with tell her straight up and be calm but sturdy i'm not a hot guy and she has better looking friends.the best thing for you bro is wait it out and see what happens if you don't like how it;s working out TALK cause that is the best thing. hell, i would. goodluck on the situation,and i hope it gets better.
2006-08-04 08:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lock someone away from the rest of the world. It does no good to be jealous and possessive. If you trust that person and they are worthy of your trust, then there is nothing to worry about. Love requires a lot of faith in the other person. That doesn't mean you have to be blind to their actions, but you have to give them the benefit of the doubt. Hopefully they won't betray your trust. Insted of being jealous and envious, talk about it, and let them know you are uncomfortable, but don't try and control them or you may push them away and other options might suddenly appear better.
2006-08-04 08:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Brommm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to suck it up and accept the fact that your gf is so charismatic and has such a good personality that she can have a relationship w/ other men w/o being a tramp. If you try to force her to pick between her friends and you- your'e going to lose her. P.S. It's not all about looks. She is with you for a reason, and she chooses to be with you instead of a great looking guy.
2006-08-04 08:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sailing in the same boat...
my husband has alot of girl friends?
some of them are much better looking then me and it makes me really uncomfortable what should I do?
Let me know.....please
2006-08-04 08:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with your girlfriend having alot of guy friends. I know that she is coming home to me so what would it matter? Like you dont have any girlfriends?
2006-08-04 08:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by tammymrs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋