There was this girl I met a few weeks back and we already came to the point where we exchange "I love you's". However, she still insists that we aren't together because there is this other guy who is also deeply in love with her. When I confronted her about this and I told her to choose, she said she can't because she wants things to remain the same. It's just so unfair in my opinion because here I am giving my all to her while she selfishly doesn't want to choose because she enjoys both of us. What do you do when the girl you love loves 2 guys? Is she just toying with me or is it that she really just can't decide? A lot of guys also fall for her and she doesn't tell them off. Does she enjoy it when guys fall head over heels for her and courts her? Is that the reason why she doesn't want to commit? I just feel she's keeping me as back-up in case it doesn't work out with the other guy or even worse, just being played for a fool. Should I just let go or should I continue being patient?
2006-08-04 08:09:24 · 3 answers · asked by Confused... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the thing is, she's a really sweet girl. I would not want to think of her that way. I try with all my might to give her the benefit of the doubt but everything just points out to be bad. The other guy doesn't seem to mind. He seems to be happy. Why is it that I am the only one who's hurting? I really want things to work out between us but everything is just against me, and when I say everything I mean everything (even the heavens), and she isn't making it any easier for me. She doesn't seem the type who likes to play around with guys. But, I may be wrong. She may be smarter than I give her credit for and I always turn out to be the asshole. I just feel so tired and so drained of my very spirit, but I'd really do anything for her. Damn, this feeling. Some people tell me she just might be afraid to hurt 2 people she holds dear to her. But some tell me to stay away because I have to protect myself. Man, I am so confused. Damn this feeling!!!
2006-08-04 09:22:56 · update #1
Sincerely wish her well and move on.We're too territorial to share women, besides, the numbers ratio (females to males)is in your favor.
2006-08-04 08:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She obviously loves the attention and loves playing guys off each other. You deserve better.
2006-08-04 08:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on don't let her play games with your heart. Plain and simple.
2006-08-04 08:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋