Okay I got a new boyfriend and he goes to my church, since he does my mom might find out I have a boyfriend an dal the others went to my school only so she never seen me with them but this time she easily could see me with him. Should I tell her or hope she doesnt find out I am 15.
2006-08-04 08:06:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start dropping hints that you like him.
Talk about him a LOT
She will get the hint.... then after a little bit just tell her. If you know him from church she will most likely approve of him over another guy she doesn't know.
2006-08-04 08:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. It's better she finds out from you than some gossip at church. That way, she can also trust you. If you lie, she can't and is likely to make you stop seeing him. If you show her it's on the up and up, he's a good guy who goes to your church (hopefully he's a good guy), then your honesty and maturity will show her you're ready for a boyfriend.
2006-08-04 15:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to have your 'first boyfriend' infront of your mom eventually. If you're truely not comfortable with calling him your boyfriend to your mom, just call him a good friend. It can be a transition to boyfriend and will buy you some time since she'll be seeing you two together at church.
2006-08-04 15:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moms ALWAYS find out. That's if she doesn't already know. That also happens very often. Don't worry about it. You'll always be a little girl for her, and that will never change. But you DO grow up, and your interests DO change. It will take a while to your mom to assimilate it all.
2006-08-04 15:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You should always be honest with you mom when it comes to relationships, because as much as we hate to admit it, mom knows best. But definitely tell her. She would probably be appreciative of the fact that you were honest with her, and the fact that he attends your same church.
2006-08-04 15:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Heavensent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her it will bring u and your mom closer together and it will let u talk to her about ur crushed, thats what moms are for at your age, so just tell her its a crush and u like each other, dont be like he's my bf thats it. plus she would be more comfortable that she knows him and he goes to your church and is not some kid from your school she doensn't even know good luck
2006-08-04 15:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what is wrong with your mom knowing youre in a relationship i mean you are 15 not 10
2006-08-04 15:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her....you r 15 and r becoming a woman, dating teaches us how to treat people, how we like to be treated, and is an important part of growing up....talk to your mom, she may agree. then you don't have to be sneeky anymore.
2006-08-04 15:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by who be boo? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hind things from your parents. Some day you will see way. If you have to hide it then its not worth it.
2006-08-04 15:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother needs to know that you have a boyfriend. My question is why you wouldn't want her to know.
2006-08-04 15:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by miki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋