the other day we were watching americas got talent and a stripper girl came on this boy got so excited and asked me if hes old enough to go to a strip club i was so flabergasted that i started to cry,isnt he to young to be obsessed with boobies should i be scared my hubby thinks its normal he even laughed im so scared his first girlfriend will be a hoe what do i do.
2006-08-04 08:03:11 · 6 answers · asked by angelina_mcardle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Youve been watching too much TV. Youre reading more intro this than there really is. Your right to feel concerned but are over doing it alittle. Boys will be boys and its a natural occurrence to be inquisitive about females. He probably jokes about it with his other friends. You should feel good that hes willing to be that open in front of you. But worrying about what his first gf will be like at this age, youre being a liitle too protective. Besides there is no guarantee that his first gf wont be the first female US President either. Just take a step back, Mom and be thankful your son is just being normal. Worrying about what is to be wont do you any good either. Just hope you have instilled in him good values and morals to be a good man someday. Good luck
2006-08-04 08:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
At 10 it is normal for boys to be "intrigued" by womens breasts. Just sit down with your son and explain to him that he needs to be 18 to go into places like that. if you aren't comfortable explaining this to your son, ask your husband to do so. most boys his age are somewhat obsessed with girls. don't worry about it.
2006-08-04 15:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by richiegirl0204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's 10...i think it's pretty normal now a days for a 10 yr od to b obsessed wit stuff like that. just teach him and help him to understand that all gurls arent like that, and that it's wrong to treat gurls like they're whores. just guid him and help him to understand that
2006-08-04 15:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh!!!! My little cousin (10) is the same way!!!!!! He tells me and his OWN sister that we're hott!!!!! It's gross!!!! But, Maybe they are going through a stage of liking that kind of stuff!!?? I don't know...but My cousin is having the same problem!!!!....Ask your husband if he liked that stuff when he was 10....I'm really not sure!!! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-04 15:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by brookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try talking to him about it and if that doesn't work keep a good eye on him and he might say leave me alone but tell him it's for you own good and don't say your not allowed to date until your 16 because that will not work trust me i tried it before.
2006-08-04 15:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyes_killme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because he's not use to seeing such. The more reaction you show, the more he's going to pay attention to it.
2006-08-04 15:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by alabamalady813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋