He is my absolute best friend ever. I would tell him im in love with him but hes a year older than me and he isnt that intrested in girls. but I do think he likes me. I have only told one person ever and i need some advice. i also dont want to tell him because we only met a year ago and we have a great friendship and i know that if he doesnt like me we wont be friends anymore. hes also my dad's best friends son so i cant tell my family. and if he does like me and our folks find out we wont be able to hang out. im going to the movies with him on sunday. ive tried to make him jealous and i think it worked because he atomatically shuts up but hes verrrry shy and i think he just wont tell me but i dont know! no vulgar answers please!
2006-08-04 08:00:07 · 16 answers · asked by cliderocker50 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do 2,but we have 2 go for it and not be scared of the bad things that can happen,we have 2 think positive things.well can i ask how old r u,im 15.u know play a game where u can send some kind of sign i did it once it worked she gave me this look,but im still some steps away from asking her out.u will regret it if u never ask him its happen 2 me with some girls before.yeah when im with someone and they began talking with someone else i also shut down,it happens.hey write back silent310cpt@yahoo.com
2006-08-04 08:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I told my ex I still loved him. He didnt respond to it as well as i thought. And i was in the exact situation as you. My parents were friends with his parents and all that. You should tell him though. Tell him that you like him first. Maybe then he'll ask you out. And once you guys go out you'll love each other and have the courage to say it to him. It took a lot of guts for me to tell my ex i still loved him but I just did it. I had a sudden urge lol. So good luck, i hope it all works well for you =)
2006-08-04 15:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Romaneasca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had the same thing and I never really told her. With us guys, there isnt that much of a problem, but you never know...I regret what I did, but it depends on his personality. If you think it wont ruin your friendship, then go ahead. But if your not sure...then I can't help there, you would be back to square one.
2006-08-04 15:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by basketballpenguin24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt matter if the man is older than you all it matters of how much he likes you back if ur shy to tell him just Text message him that if u and him have a cell
2006-08-04 15:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Twilight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "try to make someone jealous", that only make them resentful. I suggest you let things happen naturally. If he isn't interested in you as more than a friend, and you value that friendship, then keep quiet. If you see signs that he really likes you more than a friend, it wouldn't hurt to say you think he is really special.
2006-08-04 15:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how ya feel. Trust me. my situation is like urs. I think that u should find out if he likes u. If he does, that's great, maybe u guys could have somthin'. But if he doesn't that's fine 2, but just let him know sooner or later that u like him. It takes a long time getting over a crush, let a lone a love.
2006-08-04 15:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. What if something were to happen to him, you'd want him to know how you felt.Hey, & the bright side is, i'm thinking he's into you too! they say it's good to start out as friends anyway. And you said he's shy, maybe he's to scared to tell you how he feels, because he's afraid of rejection. So, go for it, your in love!
2006-08-04 15:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kerosene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell him befoe he gets a girlfriend!! If hes not interested then just dont let it ruin your friendship. Its worth a chance...what ar eu waiting for, maybe hes thinking the exact same thing as you...make a move!
2006-08-04 15:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weigh the risk factors - a great life long friend is better then a short lived romance!
2006-08-04 15:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you all the luck with this, it was the same for me, I didn't know he loved me back, turns out he wanted to have some experiences before settling down with the "one" - have patience, be true and don't push him into anything, if it's true love, it won't be unrequited, I promise.
2006-08-04 15:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋