I am single and why do most men that come on to me married? I think the single ones think I have a man. The married ones are very bold. Why? By the way I have dated a married man he was insistent on seeing me.
2006-08-04 07:43:07 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Married men are not afraid of rejection. You see if your unhappily married then rejection is the normality in your life. The woman you loved so much that you dedicated your adult life to her, and now she is rejecting you.
So with no fear of rejection they ask any woman they are attracted to out...because the worst that can happen is they are rudely rejected, something they are used to from their wives.
This is why married men must maintain the friendship with their wives making sure she knows she is cherished, protected, and respected. That way the romance is always there, and married men wouldn't have the sense of rejection that causes them to seek approval and sex somewhere outside of their marriages.
2006-08-04 07:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by magerious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because it's for a thrill. They know they have a wife at home, but it's a thrill knowing that they can get someone else still. Men are just as insecure as women sometimes. Though, you can't have a good relationship with a married man because then something seriously's wrong and you don't want to get tangled up in that.
2006-08-04 07:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by allison_t37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen to me. Look, these guys are in denial of the inadequacies in their married life and many have told me that they really don't think it is cheating as long as they don't kiss. As if having sexual intercourse is okay. Tell these cheating low-life hillbillies to hit the road and get into counseling. If they don't want to be married then they should divorce or should have never got married to begin with. There are a TON of single men in this world. You are an attractive woman who knows what she wants and a married man is not one of them.
2006-08-04 07:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are clearly hanging out in the wrong place or sending out some kind of vibe to people that you don't mean to. When I was married I NEVER came on to single women (maybe flirted a little, but nothing extreme).
Turn on the charm when you are with single men...
2006-08-04 07:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a married man is immoral and will net you nothing permanent. If, on the other hand, you are only looking for a little fun, then go for it. Just dont beleive you are going to be the next wife that happens very rarely.
2006-08-04 07:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause these men get trapped into marriage then they feel all restricted and the older you get the more these guys are unhappily married an looking for a way to escape their everyday lives
2006-08-04 07:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must lead on to the converstation that you are interested. If a man can cheat on his wife, what makes you think that they wouldn't do the same to you. Girl watch out wives can be crazy when they find out who the other woman is.... Ask mine (soon to be ex)! He still sees stars, and they are not the Hollywood stars! Lifes too short, there is someone who is meant for you, but not someone elses property!
2006-08-04 08:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
married men that date are just a bad relationship waiting to happen. they are cheaters. a few may be in a bad relationship and want to start a new one but that is what divorce is for. be careful or you might get hurt. find a good man who only wants you and can think of your feelings. good luck.
2006-08-04 07:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dated a married man, and knew that he was still married, then you are no better than he is. You both deserve what you get.
2006-08-04 07:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by jhack52593 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men like to hit on all women they are not picky. They just want what they are not supposed to have. And there are alot of women who think it is cool to date them and they know it so why not try.
2006-08-04 07:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by fourangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋